F**k MARRIAGE AND RELATION: MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP IS NOT JUST YOUR THING Part #1 by geekis

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relationship · @geekis · Dec 30 '17

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F**k MARRIAGE AND RELATION: MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP IS NOT JUST YOUR THING Part #1

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Hello friends, I hope you are all doing great.

I’m starting a series about something very vital in any relationship and in marriage particularly. I have seen many women and men likewise complain about always meeting the wrong partners, thus, their reason for always breaking up or filing divorce before you say “jack”.

Today, we will be talking about the place of “EMOTION” in any relationship and in marriage particularly. We will talk about how this simple and overlooked construct guarantees the failures and the successes recorded in your relation.
You will agree with me that emotion is that steering in our life that if not “consciously” controlled can crash us big time but when adequately controlled will take us to that desired destination. Because of this knowledge, there is need for balancing.

Any individual that cannot manage his or her emotion should not think of dating, not even thinking of marrying.
![egg.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmWaroxUDM577WaRR6BZVwrm4Hnn2aT6r73VVsmad1VNa9/egg.jpg)

A balanced emotion will tell you to halt when she is busy abusing you and you feel like slapping her.
A balanced emotion will want to critically analyze the character of the guy or lady before saying yes.
A balanced emotion will be mute and listen even when he/she is feeling that urge to say a thing that would probably call the relationship a quit.
![megaphone-3036950__340.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmX4up2S1Ejhi13HogHJgyzxu4swHDxKFHnRHGQwFF3yQP/megaphone-3036950__340.jpg)
A balanced emotion will make you call first to say sorry when you when you were offended and you even know everything about human right.
I will stop here for today but I like you to add what you feel about this piece by upvoting and commenting, please feel free to resteem

Please follow me because we will be talking about COMMUNICAION in relationship TOMORROW.
Photo license from @pixabay. I invite @tojukaka and @misterakpan to rate my post

👍 geekis, milesolson, agyapong, damony

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@agyapong · Dec 30 '17

EDUCATIVE, ihave followed you for more of this post, thank you

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@geekis · Dec 30 '17

Thank you @agyapong for the encouragement. you can as well resteem it, some of your people may learn from it too.

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@damony · Jan 7 '18

Wooow!

This is a great post. You really hit the nail with impact and I have been imparted.

But what I'm still trying to deal with is that part you said " A balanced emotion will make you call first to say I'm sorry even when you were offended and have all the knowledge about Human Right"

Lol..!


Though this is emotional Maturity; but don't you think, one might always be taken for a ride by the other person who might see this "balance of emotion" as a weakness and an outright stupidity!?

I will appreciate your swift response as I hope to be imparted with more wisdom on this.



Thanks!

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@geekis · Jan 11 '18

Sorry for not replying swiftly. You will not be taken for a ride. Everything is about balance. A balanced emotion will not "overdo"

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