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LETTERS FROM ELEVEN!
I couldn't agree less and I bet some of my STEEMIT community share my thoughts as well that marriage is a besieged city, some inside are wishing to get out and some outside are hurrying to get in, each not telling the other what they see!

Some inside are soaked in bliss but a lot more are covered with blisters, but you see before a marriage fails, things begin before they happen and so you must be told the truth and shown the way to remaining a"Victor and not renamed a "Victim". There is a mandate and there is a template but the young ones must then be taught.

Ditch giving the ladies their bouquets of flowers and start giving them the basics of marriage. Refrain from sending the men to the kingdom of marriage without the needed wisdom for marriage. They first must be taught how to avoid pitfalls,see red flags and obey traffic rules and hence know if to move or stop or wait in that relationship.

Only then will our wives submit with ease and our husbands lead and not rule. The truth is that until we know the truth, marriages will not see light of day and where we know the truth, marriages will see daylight and every daylight is a promise of a new dawn.

LETTERS FROM ELEVEN. Eleven people involved in marriages give different accounts of marriages, their ailments, diagnosis as well as their cures.
This is a compendium of my exclusive survey in #Nigeria that I will be posting in this community soon! 
Please read, resteem, upvote, and share your comments. The number of comments will facilitate my posting of the whole survey.
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Regards.
@geekis