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Can you get back together with your partner who broke up with you?
I get to hear this question often, so I decided to pen down my thoughts. Why did your partner let go of you in the first place? Did he/she consider the possibility of not having you by their side before leaving?
Well, there are so many questions I would love to ask, I will keep asking though. Going back to your partner after a break up could be seen as a weighing balance for the strength of your love for both yourself and your partner.
Yeah I talked about your love for yourself, because you must first love yourself enough to be able to make such decision of going back to someone who left u or someone you left.
I mean do you love yourself enough to agree that he/she being a part of you, makes you more happy. Or do you love your partner enough to let go of the brokeness.
If the partner who broke up with you, is the one asking for a come back, you prolly find out if his/her intentions are pure first before reconsidering why he/she left and how fair the relationship has been to both parties.
If on the other hand, the partner that was left is the one begging to be taken back, in the name of fighting for what you have, it's nice try, but consider all the relationship has brought to you before doing this.
Some of us just beg because we are in love, we don't care if we get the same love back, so we are ready to beg, even when we are not treated right.
These people forget about self-love, they have enough love for others not themselves. That's why they don't care about being loved, as far as they are with the ones they love.
So my thoughts are!
Don't beg to be loved, if you find yourself doing this, then please work on yourself first.
Everyone deserves love
And
Everyone deserves a second chance, so it's not a bad idea to take back your partner.
Compliments of the season!!
Thanks for reading!!
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