<p>Ease comes to business relationships and when you're not afraid to "play" and is ready to claim the hand. The ease of being there when you do not do big bets on life and are not afraid to lose it. This is - humility. Prohibitively difficulty in making such a view there. This - the usual honesty with him. Tomorrow is unpredictable. Next second unpredictable. Expect something - it means deceive ourselves. All expectations lead to painful understanding of the differences that inevitably arise between fantasy and reality. Apparently sometimes necessary again and again to deviate from already understood and accepted truths that after coming back to them on new paths with a new level of understanding.</p>
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<p>Easy, I'm talking about - it's not disregard lightheadedness and piggish looseness. This is a state where you do not expect anything at all, knowing that life is always and does everything on its own way, but it continues to operate.</p>
<p>In the next hour, life can happen anything. Future moments arising in tomorrow - it is the existence of virgin canvas on which depicts a reality for the first time, certainly not zagadyvaya, as it were, spontaneously, effortlessly.</p>
<p>Yes, sometimes the "pictures" are seriously, but the extent of the drama is directly proportional to the expectations and interest rates, which are assigned to the future. The greater the expectations, the greater the experience.</p>
<p>Purely on a human - it is really difficult and controversial matter. And all because at this stage of his life scenarios almost every packed to personal ideas about how life should be. no hurry to abandon these fantasies. Very much they warm the soul, very much look forward to the fulfillment of desires sweet.</p>
<p>Purely on a human - it is really difficult and controversial matter. And all because at this stage of his life scenarios almost every packed to personal ideas about how life should be. no hurry to abandon these fantasies. Very much they warm the soul, very much look forward to the fulfillment of desires sweet.</p>
<p>The hopes and expectations - these are the psychological desire that the Buddha described as the source of human suffering. In this sense, the lightness of being - that is, so that's spiritual enlightenment. The more such ease, the less dependence on the dreams of the mind and the deeper reality is accepted.</p>
<p><strong>The whole drama of life occurs with desires. The higher rate to a particular scenario, the stronger the fear that everything will go differently. And this "different", meanwhile, can be no worse than the expected life of the story. But the desire to have the insidious property - to suggest that any alignment that goes beyond the expected desirable, lead to disaster. Such is the "Sink or Swim" in psychology is called dichotomous - that is to say, black-and-white thinking.</strong></p>
<p>It sounds like a diagnosis? But this "disease", in one degree or another, everyone is infected.</p>
<p>This is - a way of thinking and living being, when the mind is angling thrill of anticipation dual. And the more he podsazhen on them, the more fear in life, that everything goes according to plan, and the entire project, swung desires, crushing fall apart before our eyes.</p>
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<p>There is nothing definite. The choice, destiny, karma - all attempts to catch non-existent. How do we know what life should be? Why cling to their own illusions? Mistakes are inevitable. They provide the experience that allows them to bypass the same.</p>
<p>Sometimes you just need to break the relationship, get involved in the problem, give birth to children and then divorced, a child's nose screw up, tame, and then lose confidence, a good lie, get drunk, hit the wall - easy to understand and see ... get your real an experience. No fools. One can not and must not be otherwise. There is only experienced and inexperienced - each in its life line.</p>
<p><strong>"Sad" news: we all die; earth accumulation and anxiety in this world are not worth anything. Good news: sorrow and worry about this it is not necessary; life is like a fascinating journey. Everyone seemed in the same plane - carried in his present. We have a choice, there is a certain measure of control, but all personal freedom due to the experience and the surrounding reality. At any moment it can happen unexpected. This is alarming, but if not reconciled with him, it only gets worse, the reality turns into senseless deadly battle against the inevitable.</strong></p>
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