Dealing With Gift-giving Anxiety by graciousvic

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hive-194848 · @graciousvic · Dec 4 '22 (edited)

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Dealing With Gift-giving Anxiety

**<centet>Welcome to my blog</center>**

I'm pleased to participate in this week 36 #kiss prompt.

It's already approaching Christmas and we may be anticipating presents from our loved ones, most notably the one who we might have done so throughout the other years.
I can't tell they won't give you but expectations hurt.
What if you are the giving person instead of receiving?
What if you liberate your thoughts so you won't be hurt

Appericiation is very good and if you still don't have to give you don't have to kill yourself, you truly do not have to have a specific day like their birthday or Christmas to gift them. And you don't even to borrow to satisfy anybody just be yourself.

No matter what you will receive, be pleased and if you got less than expected, still appreciate it. It takes someone who has you in mind to at least present you a gift at this occasion.
There's no reason for anxiety or worry.

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmVLdkAby3uKkD1DBxRSfyhLjFdgdsKQZRCULoANZc19Dh/photo_1589948516895_db76617cb753.jpeg)

[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/_Q0dP8xiUGA)

**<center>How you may ease your Gift-giving anxiety</center>**

**Start preparation early**
If you actually have goal of giving someone all you can to do I start the planning early. You may do your daily, weekly or money saving depending on what you want to acquire for the person and how much it will cost, in that manner when the special day arrive you do not have to be anxious since all is resolved.

**Get what your capable of**
You actually don't have to spend everything on you to impress someone. If they are genuinely close to you, they should understand better. Give the little you have, the intentions of that offering, that's what truly counts.
You shouldn't give and start moaning or regretting why you did.

**If you don't have, communicate**
Available occasions when you have intentions of getting a gift for someone but the money is not there. There's no need for being nervous, you simply need to convey to whoever you want to acquire the present for.

**Thank you for reading**
**Have a nice week ahead 🌹❤️**

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@adaezeinchrist · Dec 4 '22

Thanks for sharing.
Hope you will send my Christmas gift? Hahaha 😄

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@graciousvic · Dec 4 '22

Smiles
You that's owing me wedding rice 😜

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@adaezeinchrist · Dec 5 '22

Hahaha 😄. Which wedding? Don't worry when my daughter's wedding will come before ten years time, I will pay you there.

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1 reply

@millycf1976 · Dec 5 '22

You have broken down these points so well, and given some valuable points that could really help to alleviate and avoid gift-giving anxiety.
![small KISS Gif.gif](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/hive-194848/AK7soY4LWfxSgorvq52XKyoqvyT4HCxFFSb3LF4D4PZwuFQAC1T69TiJEnxwc4D.gif)
Thanks for your #KISS 
I enjoyed it 😉
_____

<sup><sup>[lips sealed](https://pixabay.com/vectors/lip-gloss-lips-lipstick-beauty-151266/)</sup></sup></center><center><sup><sup>[speaking lips](https://pixabay.com/vectors/lips-mouth-speak-kiss-lipstick-145758/)</sup></sup>

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@graciousvic · Dec 5 '22

You're welcome dear friend
I'm glad my points could help

👍 millycf1976

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@teknon · Dec 7 '22

You're on point with this. Gift giving should be from the heart and not as a mandatory thing to do. The fact that it's called gift means out of love a person is giving. I see no reason why anxiety should be in place when it comes to giving gifts.

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@graciousvic · Dec 7 '22

Exactly
Thank you for sharing your idea

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@teknon · Dec 8 '22

😌😌😌

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