Howto deal with the bad choices made by our parents. by gwajnberg

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hive-153850 · @gwajnberg · Jan 8 '25

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Howto deal with the bad choices made by our parents.

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<p>&emsp; I am thankful to my parents for my cultural background, of course, not all of them formed who I am. But they are "guilty" of a great part of it. Also is part of our relationship to continue to help each other, of course establishing limits on it. I don't agree with either part of sacrificing their own family to help them.  That can create a vicious cycle of dependence between the two sides. We can cite my kids. I want to do the best for them, and of course, even when they are grown up I want to continue to help them, but still, we need to put some limits in this relationship. </p>



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<div class="text-center"><sub><a href="https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/family-budget-finance-plan-flat-poster_4430584.htm#fromView=search&page=1&position=1&uuid=9d6c9c24-85a5-4061-a023-5fc4accb0296&new_detail=true">It is normal to find self-sacrifice around money in families in all directions of relationships [Free-for-use in FreePik]</a></sub> </div>
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<p>&emsp; For example, my kid wants a special birthday. I want to create a special day where my kid feels loved. But depending on the birthday requirements, it can be very harmful to us parents, especially to our budget. I know an example where the father spent his entire retirement money to pay for the university of one daughter. The father is already reaching his 60s, what about now? And I don't see this daughter helping him in his retirement, since she is selfish. Usually when you have constant self-sacrifice on one side, the other tends to explore more. The same thing to parents' mistakes.     </p>

<p>&emsp; For example, parents that spent all retirement money that are receiving to pay for clothes and electronics, and now there isn't money left even to sustain themselves. They still have an income, but because of their debt with the bank all the income goes to the debt, should a child sacrifice their money for their mistakes? It depends. If we have a way to help them, we can. But if you are sacrificing something in your daily life, like changing kids to a cheaper school, or canceling your vacation that you already paid off. That starts to get dangerous.  </p>

<p>&emsp; Even the law agrees with that. If these parents die, the kids won't be guilty of these debts. The only thing that will happen is that all the assets in the name of the parents will be executed to pay this debt. And maybe only the leftovers will be inherited by their kids. Some cultural parents prepare themselves to leave assets to their kids, but they commit so many mistakes that the inherited assets become headaches. The best way is for kids to prepare themselves and build their assets. </p>






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<p>&emsp; At this right moment I am having the same type of conversation with my mother. Her relationship with my father is getting in a position of self-sacrifice. And it is time for her to make some decisions to step back if the person ( my father in this case) is demanding what she can provide. No one can be guilty of the actions of the other, parents, children, and even partners. We all are human beings with our own lives which need to be preserved and with the same value as our loved ones.  </p>





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<p>&emsp; Sou grato aos meus pais pela minha formação cultural, claro, nem todos eles formaram quem eu sou. Mas eles são "culpados" de grande parte dela. Também faz parte do nosso relacionamento continuar a ajudar um ao outro, claro estabelecendo limites nisso. Não concordo com nenhuma das partes em sacrificar a própria família para ajudá-los. Isso pode criar um ciclo vicioso de dependência entre os dois lados. Podemos citar meus filhos. Quero fazer o melhor por eles e, claro, mesmo quando eles crescerem, quero continuar a ajudá-los, mas ainda assim, precisamos colocar alguns limites nesse relacionamento. </p>

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<div class="text-center"><sub><a href="https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/family-budget-finance-plan-flat-poster_4430584.htm#fromView=search&page=1&position=1&uuid=9d6c9c24-85a5-4061-a023-5fc4accb0296&new_detail=true">É normal encontrar auto-sacrifício em torno do dinheiro em famílias em todas as direções de relacionamentos [Free-for-use no FreePik]</a></sub> </div>
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<p>&emsp; Por exemplo, meu filho quer um aniversário especial. Quero criar um dia especial em que meu filho se sinta amado. Mas, dependendo dos requisitos do aniversário, isso pode ser muito prejudicial para nós, pais, especialmente para o nosso orçamento. Conheço um exemplo em que o pai gastou todo o dinheiro da aposentadoria para pagar a universidade de uma filha. O pai já está chegando aos 60 anos, e agora? E não vejo essa filha ajudando-o na aposentadoria, pois ela é egoísta. Normalmente, quando você tem auto-sacrifício constante de um lado, o outro tende a explorar mais. A mesma coisa com os erros dos pais. </p>

<p>&emsp; Por exemplo, pais que gastaram todo o dinheiro da aposentadoria que estão recebendo para pagar roupas e eletrônicos, e agora não há dinheiro sobrando nem para se sustentar. Eles ainda têm uma renda, mas por causa da dívida com o banco, toda a renda vai para a dívida, um filho deve sacrificar seu dinheiro por seus erros? Depende. Se tivermos uma maneira de ajudá-los, podemos. Mas se você estiver sacrificando algo em sua vida diária, como mudar as crianças para uma escola mais barata ou cancelar suas férias que você já pagou. Isso começa a ficar perigoso. </p>

<p>&emsp; Até a lei concorda com isso. Se esses pais morrerem, os filhos não serão culpados dessas dívidas. A única coisa que acontecerá é que todos os bens em nome dos pais serão executados para pagar essa dívida. E talvez apenas as sobras sejam herdadas por seus filhos. Alguns pais culturais se preparam para deixar bens para seus filhos, mas cometem tantos erros que os bens herdados se tornam dores de cabeça. A melhor maneira é que os filhos se preparem e construam seus bens. </p>

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<p>&emsp; Neste exato momento, estou tendo o mesmo tipo de conversa com minha mãe. O relacionamento dela com meu pai está chegando a uma posição de auto-sacrifício. E é hora de ela tomar algumas decisões para recuar se a pessoa (meu pai neste caso) estiver exigindo o que ela pode fornecer. Ninguém pode ser culpado pelas ações do outro, pais, filhos e até mesmo parceiros. Todos nós somos seres humanos com nossas próprias vidas que precisam ser preservadas e com o mesmo valor que nossos entes queridos. </p>

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@aquarius.academy · 2025-07-24T00:12:21+00:00

# Keep being incredible 🌟


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@bbhbot · Jan 8 '25

<center><p>@gwajnberg! <b>@crazyphantombr likes your content!</b> so I just sent 1 <b>BBH</b> to your account on behalf of @crazyphantombr. <sub>(1/5)</sub></p>
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@bbhbot · Jan 9 '25

<center><p>@gwajnberg! <b>@shiftrox likes your content!</b> so I just sent 1 <b>BBH</b> to your account on behalf of @shiftrox. <sub>(1/20)</sub></p>
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@crazyphantombr · Jan 8 '25

É uma questão de equilíbrio então. Se só um lado se doa, a coisa fica desequilibrada e isso vai dar errado. Conheço muitos pais que fazem de tudo para seus filhos e esses mesmos filhos desdenham dos seus pais!
!PIMP
!BBH
!WINE

👍 gwajnberg

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@gwajnberg · Jan 8 '25

Sim, acho que o culpado e quem da tudo de mao beijada pro outro, ai o outro não da valor e vira uma bola de neve...tu acha que dar tudo pro outro vai ser reciproco. Pelo que vejo sempre não funciona assim. Pq a pessoa ajudada acha que ela que sempre precisa de ajuda...

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@davideownzall · Jan 9 '25

I think parents should be helped if they have been very lovely and helpful with you, of course with limits... I can't sell my house to pay their debts... Here when relatives die you can either do : accept all assets AND the debts or refuse all assets and debts, so get nothing... But the law says here that you are forced to give support to sons and parents, like you can't let them live in the street with no food at any age

👍 gwajnberg
👎 spaminator

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@dewabrata · Jan 9 '25

I have an inheritance of 5M usd debt, I tried to cover it up else my 78 yo old man would get in jail. 

If he passes away, the remaining $2m debt will be accounted as my debt, legitimated by court law based on the national law. 

The law in my country put assets and debts as part of inheritance, so if someone fucks up very badly, their descendant must denounce, disavow and cut all legal ties with their parents, else the debt will kill them.

👍 gwajnberg

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@gwajnberg · Jan 9 '25

Wow!!! That is crazy!!!

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@dewabrata · Jan 9 '25 (edited)

it is natural here, so usually if someone gets too broke, his/her children won't take any inheritance so they can avoid the debt and TAXes too. The debt includes credit card balance, tap water bills, tax, traffic fines, and many more.

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@nexo0702 · Jan 9 '25 (edited)

Hello @gwajnberg 

Look, I read your entire post. I am telling you this from my own experience. 
We cannot forget in our entire life what our parents have done for us. The sacrifices they made for us, the wishes they left for us. There is a lot that our parents have done for us. 
Look friend, whatever the parents have done, the children should not be punished for it. If any untoward incident has happened to the parents then the children should not get involved with it. I enjoyed reading your post very much. Thank you.

👍 gwajnberg

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@oluwadrey · Jan 8 '25

This is a very profound post, you have said it all, I love the examples cited here,
The parents should face their own actions and punishment alone

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@gwajnberg · Jan 8 '25

But you can be there to give emotional support for example :)

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@oluwadrey · Jan 8 '25

Yes the children can give them emotional support,
I am looking at the broader aspect of the children yet born, in Africa here generational punishment and curses is very prevalent to several generations

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@pandex · Jan 9 '25

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@perfilbrasil · Jan 8 '25

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@pixbee · Jan 8 '25

Obrigada pela Tip my friend! bzzzzzz!

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@shiftrox · Jan 8 '25

São muitas questões mesmo, mas acho que se os pais fazem algo ruim, eles que paguem por isso, agora deixar para crianças, seus filhos, os julgamentos e problemas do que ocorre é ruim, é injusto, as vezes essas crianças nem sabem das tramoias que seus pais fazem e ainda assim são julgadas, isso eu acho super errado.

!BBH !LOLZ

👍 gwajnberg

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@gwajnberg · Jan 9 '25

Ah sim!  O ideal é ser sempre franco nas relações… seja pai-filho ou qualquer que seja!

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@shiftrox · Jan 9 '25

isso aí! 

!BBH !LOLZ

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@thebighigg · Jan 8 '25

When you're parents pass on the debts are gone, even if they were substantial as it was when my parents passed on. I know in some Asian countries there are multigenerational mortgages, that would suck to inherit a mortgage to keep paying because the property is so expensive it can't be paid off in one lifetime. 

Debt sucks is the plain and simple fact of life... Avoid it at all cost! That's my advice!

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@gwajnberg · Jan 8 '25

oh man that info about asian countries I didn't know!! I would ran from this country hehehehe

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@young-tari · Jan 8 '25

$0.02

As you illustrated with the debt, I've seen a lot of children being burdened with the debts of their parents after the death of their parents. "It isn't right." I'm glad your culture doesn't believe in that.

👍 gwajnberg

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@gwajnberg · Jan 8 '25

It isn't right to go in this direction... I know that companies and people want the money back somehow... but it is unfair :)

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