Before I teach you how to get out of the “friend zone”, you must first understand what it means to be “friend zoned”. The truth is, you already know. You just don’t want to admit it.
**“Friend zone”** is a place in which you find yourself hostage to having feelings for someone who only considers you to be a good friend.
Some have even considered it to be a form of emotional and mental terrorism because your mind was basically ninja’d into making you feel lost and unsure about yourself. You basically become someone’s little bitch and you have no idea how you got to this point in this one sided relationship.
The tragic comedy to this is that there’s no one to blame but yourself.
Let’s dive deeper into looking for the signs of being in a “friend zone”.
**Communication**
Notice key words used when texting or talking. “Friend zoned” keywords or phrases used:
“hey buddy!”
“hi bff!”
“you’re so nice.”
She/He talks to you about the opposite sex (or same sex or whatever…)
Only sends friendly emojis like blue hearts, smiley faces and stays away from winking emojis and red hearts.
Appearance
Did this individual take the time to get ready when meeting up with you? Both women and men pride themselves in looking good for the opposite sex, especially if they’re interested. If they don’t take the time, this could mean they don’t care what you think of them, which could only mean you’re fucking “friend zoned”.
When you meet up, is it for brunch, lunch or just grabbing a coffee? 
Look, these are a good way to start perhaps on a first date or when you’re meeting someone for the first time, but doing it all the time is considered “friend zone” types of outings. I can go on all day on how to recognize the signs of being “friend zoned” but that’s not why you’re reading this.
You want to know how the fuck to get out of that “No Action Jackson” territory?
Well, I’m going to do even better. I’m going tell you how NOT to get into the “friend zone” in the first place!
Ok… school circle around me. Here it is...
**THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS A FUCKING FRIEND ZONE!!!!**
You did it to yourself and you deserve to be taken advantage of for being an idiot!
Look, when you approach a man or woman, you have two ways of doing it. You’re either interested in them as a friend or you have already made up your mind that you are interested in this person on a much deeper level.
If I’m interested in a woman, she’s going to know I’m interested in her more than just being friends. How? I introduce myself, I compliment her, I stare at her eyes when she’s talking, I smile at her and show her a deeper level of interest. I flirt with her and let her know she’s caught my attention.
Now, if I’m not romantically interested in her, l treat her like I would a friend. Do you talk to your friends the same way you talk to someone you’re interested in? It’s different. You flirt with men or women you’re interested in and friends you treat like friends.
It’s the complete opposite of what you would to before you get ready to ask someone out or spend time to get to know someone.
So, let’s re-define Friend zone one more time…
**“Friend zone”** is a place you put yourself in from the start because you didn’t have to courage to let said person of interest know you liked them and want to be more than friends.
Being in the friend zone is a state of mind. If you want to get out of the friend zone, stop being weak minded and go get what you want. If the other person doesn’t reciprocate, at least you know where you stand and you did what you could to be honest and let that person know how you feel.
You’re not always going to win but at least play the fucking game and take a chance.
Fuck being in the “friend one” when you can be in the END ZONE!!
P.S. Keep your shit classy.
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