Oh my! It seems I was in the spirit today. Today I woke up with the same thought, nothing in particular led to it or inspired it. I just woke up and felt the need to speak about choosing the right partner and in my opinion, I made emphasis on **Kindness, Intentionality and consideration**
As much as love encompasses these things but it is very pertinent to specifically look out for the above mentioned in a life partner when choosing one.
You see love alone isn't enough and as much as we might pray against bad/ difficult times, they will definitely come and in those times, it takes two people who are willing to work hand in hand to understand that these things come and go.
It takes a kind partner to still treat you right doing their trying and difficult times while they are still facing and battling with their own demons as well. Someone who considers and put you first or among their top priorities even as he or she isn't having it and someone who is intentional about growing with you under all odds.

So for me, these as the things I admire the most about someone and look out for in my quest of a life partner. I don't really seek much attention as I'm a very private person,I just need me someone who understands the rudiments of a long lasting and healthy relationships, not those chasing vain things

I'm glad to be among the first 200+ to see this post before it hits that 1k comments and more, that make me scroll my ass out lol 💔😂🤣😭
Happy weekend to everyone! I hope you are all enjoying the weekend.