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It Is So Difficult To Go Through But I Just Have To by hivedeb

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It Is So Difficult To Go Through But I Just Have To
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The word stereotype has existed for time immemorial. People get stereotyped because of what other people perceive them to be or what the people who came from his region look like. For the sake of breaking out of these forms of pants, people have seen themselves behave in such a way that they may not want to just to avoid what people will say.Gender-based violence is on the increase because of how the other gender is looked at, and in most cases it is inhuman. 

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Last month was a month reserved for the men; the world perceived that men go through a lot, and most of them don't dare speak up because the world will not want to hear them out. A critical example is when you hear people say, "Men don't cry." This has made lots of men die of heart attacks; most of the scenarios of slumping and dying issues were recorded among the male folk.
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I took my little boy to the clinic for his fourteen-week immunization; when it was getting to be his turn, he was told that he shouldn't cry because men don't. Well, from the training I give them at home, I encourage them to cry when they are pained because it is normal to feel pain and express that pain through crying. Pain doesn't last forever, and relief comes when they release the pain.While I was talking to him, I watched his face change drastically, and he almost started crying.
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 Immediately after the injection was administered, he began to cry, but to my shock, it didn't last for long.Now, there is this stereotype in my husband's place that men don't perform house chores. So a woman will end up attending to her day job outside and return to also bury her head in the kitchen. Getting married, my husband and I decided to change the narrative because he said that one's gender does not make him higher than the other or something. Even when I say he should leave doing something, he insists on doing so because he says he can't allow me to work out myself because of what people will say.
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I have been forced to keep calm because I am a woman, and I don't have to talk when things are going wrong, even when things are falling into place. This issue has lingered to the point I made up my mind not to force myself into discussions I am not invited to. Women are seen as not having a say when it comes to their fathers property, but the annoying part of this is when things go in a negative direction, they start coming around for me to help them fix things upwithout seeing the need to apologize.
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At the moment I have not been able to overcome this at all. At the moment I have not overcome this stereotype and don't think I will because it has to do with a large group of people. It is so difficult to change a group of people who have the same mentality; for a long time they have held strong to a particular ideology and expect everyone to also do the same. The only thing I do with my husband is to try our best to impact our kids correct mindset, as it will be so difficult to change a whole. 
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When they see how well we are performing, they may consider working on themselves or their children.Giving advice to an adult is so difficult, especially those who feel that what they know is the ultimate. I better keep my wealth of knowledge and look for those that will appreciate what I have to offer.

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@merit.ahama ·
Glad to know you have a husband who is very much living against such stereotype about wives at home. It doesn't take anything away from men helping out, they are one and should act like one in everything.

Men don't cry ke, there is even a medical benefit for crying so they should cry o 😂 
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@hivedeb ·
My dear ooo, at first it wasn't easy but at past we enjoying it now. Help me ooo, since we got married, I saw my husband cry once twice highest. They need the research....

Thank you for reading 
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@merit.ahama ·
Lol our men need help please, they can cry sometimes. 
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