**MARRIAGE is the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship (historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman.**

There are alot of vital things or should I say important things that should be in a marriage but **three (3)** are major..which i feel most marriage of today lack
1: **TRUST.**
2:**LOVE.**
3.**COMMITMENT.**

*i know some of you might be wondering why I didn't mention **love** as number one .. don't worry I will explain*.
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>>Do u know when u truely love someone that means you have trusted your heart already with that person ...you definitely can't love someone you don't trust that's why trust comes first before love.
Then after trusting and loving u have to stay committed with your partner..
Commitment is very Paramount
I see some men saying I trust and love my woman but I get side babe...which definitely is a wrong notion at all times we all need to be committed with our partners
**These three ingredients in marriage makes  marriage sweet and blissful home...that where u hear and they lived happily ever after😍.**

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**Who do u think breaks the oath taken in marriage the most .. and number two how do u think a broken marriage be fixed?**

One needs to know the  causes of broken marriages before then talking about how it can be fixed, well I know of two ***selfishness and poor communication skill.**Also **Neglect** can also be listed among them..*
**Selfishness:**Many people are selfish to some extent. But when it comes at the price of a healthy marriage, then it’s a problem. You can’t always put your needs first. You have to put your partner’s needs at least equal to – or before – your own.

**Poor communication skill:**Knowing how to talk to your partner to express your feelings and needs is essential. So as to put some certain thing in consideration.

 **Neglect:**Relationships are like plants. If you don’t water a plant, it will die. If you neglect a marriage, it will eventually end as well.

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**How To Fix A broken marriage**
**Take Responsibility for Your Own Actions**
*Now that you know what you did to contribute to your marital problems, own up to them. Tell your spouse how you feel, and then commit to changing your behavior immediately.*

**Honesty also come in place...**
*Having a heart to heart talk... Each patner definately see the marriage from his/her own point to view, so just listen.. Dont get defensive*.

*The most important thing for a lasting marriage or relationship is **commitment.**
Loves might expire alone the way but will be renewed by the commitment.*

*thanks for reading this post*



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