年俗——拜年 by hqy

hive-105017 · @hqy · Feb 15 '21

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年俗——拜年

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一地有一地的习俗。在我们这，迈过新年的门槛，从初一开始就得“拜年”了。

“初一崽，初二郎，初三初四姑姨娘”说的就是拜年的顺序。

初一，一起床，小孩就要给大人拜年，晚辈给长辈拜年。说些吉利话，祝福话。这时受“拜”者也同样表达美好的祝愿，并且让拜年者坐下来“封杯”，也就是喝茶喝酒吃点心零食。“封杯”以后才可以搞其它活动。

初一除了自家人拜年，还要给先人拜“地”年。等于是去扫墓，带上鞭炮、香、烛、三牲、酒水，去先人坟上烧纸作揖。这是在家过年的必做项目。
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初二本是“牙祭”日，女儿女婿正好回娘家拜年吃好的。这天出嫁女带着老公儿女回娘家来，带上一串鞭炮，到了家门口，点燃鞭炮，等于是告诉家人：我回来了。家人听到声音忙出来迎接。这个习俗一直延续着。其实是个陋习，又吵又脏😀😀，搞得清洁工也挺不高兴。

初三初四往往去姑舅姨家，一一走一遍，吃一通就算拜完了年。所以家里的长辈当家人初六之前都得呆家里，随时怕有人来拜年，不能“新年伊始”就让客人走在门外，这不是好兆头。
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拜年有好的吃，又有玩，看上去是个美差，在我而言是个苦差。回到村里就是回了娘家，凡是认识的人都会请你进屋“封杯”，甚至吃饭，你不去还不行，让人觉得你看不起人。搞得我都不太敢回去。这家吃那家喝的，到处欠人情。我在家当过老师，谁不认识啊！还有不少学生，感觉这年还真难“拜”啊！

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