人老别话多 by hqy

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cn · @hqy · Sep 2 '18

$2.02

人老别话多

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俗话说:人老话多，树老根多。最近感觉这话特别对，这行为特别不对。

感慨是由我二姐引发的。

我二姐大我六岁，最近有些事要来县里处理，来我家次数多些。我发现她话特多，多得我不知怎么回答，多得我直想叫她闭嘴(但不敢)！


我在择菜，她帮我择。一边天南地北扯，这也还好，她说我听。

我们一起吃饭，她也说个不停:
对着我小儿子:“你怎么不吃辣椒啊？”
对着我大儿子:“你怎么不多吃碗饭？这么高大吃少了要不得”
总是些明明白白，不言而喻的问题，让人答也不是，不答也不是。说多了不答理总不礼貌吧，于是我把话题岔开。
“过几天Amy要回来了，我得想办法做点好吃的。”
“她一个人知道来？怎么回去啊？”
“到时候再看，说不定我送她去深圳。”
“那你家里人怎么办，谁做饭？”
“到时候自然。又没有准规定饭只能我做。”
“哪个买菜呢？”
啊，怎么那么多问题，管那么多闲事，未必我不在家他们不吃饭？真让我气不打一处来。

晚上我要看点东西，想些事情。她也不看看我有沒有事，一个劲只管说。只要她沒睡着，就说说说……


二姐以前不是这样的，现在怎么会那么多话？我想不明白。

这让我想起当年老妈在我家。那时我们房子少，老妈晚上醒来就跟老爸聊天，还嗓门大，吵得我们睡不好。难道真是人老了就是这样？

难道就是因为老了吗？我寻思着。再过几年，难道我也是这个样子？细思极恐！


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人老了就什么事都想问，什么事都想知道？要知道那么多干什么呢？长江后浪推前浪，前浪已拍在沙滩上。年轻人谁还会听你的？他们早把你当古董了！你就不能省点心，好好休息休息！

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我告诫自己:你也已进入老人行列，从现在开始做点你自已喜欢的事，坚持一样兴趣爱好，别多管“闲事”。老人为什么讨人嫌，我想大多是因为闲下来无事可做，脑子里想这想哪，又沒有地方可倾诉，精神无处寄托，这样会憋出毛病来。

但也不能不说话，一旦对什么都不感兴趣，整天沒有发自内心的喜乐，只有哀怒，那也就是另一种毛病了。

老年朋友们，趁早学门“手艺”以打发晚年无聊的时光！

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@changxiu · Sep 2 '18

己所不欲勿施于人
贺老师以此来提前约束自己，真好！
我姥姥和我妈妈都觉得自己很厉害，在家里事事要做主，别人做都不放心的——我也以此为鉴，放低姿态、多夸他人才好~

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@hqy · Sep 2 '18

谢谢支持鼓励！

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@cnbuddy · Sep 2 '18

你那里天气如何？请支持中文区的见证人， @abit @bobdos @ety001 @justyy @skenan （首字母顺序），全投，一个都不要漏。倘若你想让我隐形，请回复“取消”。

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@kadishakho · Sep 3 '18

老师！老人也是分好几种，或许是你的二姐在家里没有交谈的对象！来到你这里就开怀大谈特谈了！

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@hqy · Sep 3 '18

是的，要么是什么都不说，要么话特多。

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@sdream · Sep 2 '18

到这里来了的，估计话都不多。不然，谁旁边还站着一群人看着发博文？

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@hqy · Sep 3 '18

哈哈，有道理。

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@tumutanzi · Sep 2 '18

$0.38

厉害，老师能自警自己，也能自觉自己，这是十分难得的。到时老师要是实在想法多，也完全可以写在Steemit上，与全世界的朋友分享。哈哈。文字的东西好，会精炼，爱看的就看，不爱看的就不看，比当面说话还好。

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@hqy · Sep 2 '18

哈哈，我以后还能写吗？

老人真的要自省，别管那么多事了，老小老小，做个老乖孩子就好。

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@wjr · Sep 11 '18

我小时就喜欢听外公说故事，猜谜语。

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@xiaoguai · Sep 4 '18

我喜欢和老人说话，我觉得能学到好多

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@hqy · Sep 4 '18

好青年！

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