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绝不是个例:留守老人的悲哀 by hqy

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绝不是个例:留守老人的悲哀
西边的太阳快要落山了,天幕上呈现出光怪陆离的霞光。

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吃过晚饭,我们一帮老姐相约出去晚练。突然一个电话响起。原来是我的一个远房表婶打来的。她说她孙子在学校肚子疼,老师让家长送去看病,他们带去乡卫生院打了针,拿了药。医生说怕阑尾炎,叫明天去县医院。要去只能爷爷带他去,她自己脱不开身,家里还有三个小的。让爷爷到了医院给我电话,让我有空去帮忙办手续,爷爷不识字。

我随口答应着,这忙有空没空都得帮。他们确实太茫然,运气好,碰到医德高尚的还好,万一遇个无良,让你狠狠花钱,他狠狠提成。有次在医院候诊,我亲眼见一感冒患者光检查费三四百。转念一想,有必要来吗?是不是阑尾炎,一般的医生都可以判断,小孩子有点小毛病也正常,何必大惊小怪。

一边跟老姐们汇报,一边给她们讲故事:

上次我这表叔,在外打工,感冒了老咳嗽,咳得胸口发痛。老板开了他。他回到家,感觉浑身不舒服,他和老伴都认为,一定是癌症,老板怕出事才开了他。越想越怕,越怕越想,吃不香,睡不着的。于是商量来商量去,最后决定来县里做个检查,可小孩子都不在家,只好打电话给我,要我帮他们去办手续。

来到医院,我叮嘱他,只做相关的检查,不要全查。你赚的那点钱不容易。我找了熟人,看也看了,查也查了。医生说,就是感冒引起的,支气管有点问题,开点药吃。表叔还是不相信,但脸色明显回暖了。我劝他先吃了这些药,看情况,不行的话再来。大约过了四五天,我打电话一问,他说好了,不咳了。

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我的故事还没讲完,表婶又打电话来了。这回居然还哭起来了。我一边劝,一边要她慢慢说,她说:


小孩子肚子又疼起来了。她本来下午已经打电话告诉了媳妇,已经送卫生院了,媳妇问了句,要不要她回,我怕她难劳神,就说不要她回。现在小孩子肚子又疼了,她怪我没带好,连电话都不接了。我还要怎样带呢?我只有叫辆车送到县里去啰。家里还只有五百元钱,万一少了,你帮我垫上,他们回来给你。

说完还念上了阿弥陀佛:“啊呀呢,没事就好嗒,要是有什么事,回来人都会骂死。”听着听着,我一肚子的气:

“你哪那么怕呀?嫌你没带好,他自己带啰。小孩子有点毛病很正常,她自己带没毛病啊?让她跟我来说。”

我给婶子撑腰。我问,你回忆下,是不是吃了什么脏东西?

“是了,管不住,老要吃麻辣。”

“那你放心,没事。以后不要给买了,垃圾食品少吃。”

“难呐,他爸爸妈妈一回来就什么都顺着他们,自认为平时不在家,回来就要好好填补一样。一走我们就控制不了了,你不给买就说,又不是你的钱,是我爸爸妈妈的。实在不给就在地上打滚。打不能打,骂不能骂。”

是这样!我也无语了。

果然,在医院做了个检查,什么事都没有。只好又拿点药回去。所幸表婶可以睡个安稳觉了。

从医院回来,我躺在床上却睡不着了:唉,可怜的老人!要看那么多孩子,煮饭洗衣,种菜养鸡,还要请人种点维持家里吃的粮食。容易吗?体力上的劳累尚能承受,精神上的惶恐却让人揪心!目前这好像是农村大部分留守老人的宿命,也是他们的悲哀!什么时候能让他们老有所养,老有所乐呢?
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@luneknight ·
留守老人和留守儿童确实是无法忽视的社会大问题
不过感冒很容易引起很多并发症,有病去医院看看以防万一
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@qimingzi ·
是的,我一个舅舅家的孩子从小在外婆家长大,舅每次回来时都觉得孩子受了委屈似的,外婆外公打不能打说也不能说,很是憋屈;孩子不能惯着会上天
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@hqy ·
惯上天的孩子确实不少,尤其是男孩。我文中那个家里就这一个男孩,所以特别娇纵。不知以后会变成什么人。
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@renzhichu ·
是啊,农村老人的养老问题确实很严重!他们的处境真的很艰难!
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@hqy ·
农村老人确实不容易。小孩孝顺的还好,不孝顺的真的可怜。
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@renzhichu ·
农村不孝顺的还多些,特别是儿子多的不孝的也多。
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@rivalhw ·
老师建议你文章标签里加多个文学群的标签 cn-reader ,这样就能方便经常看到你的文章,避免遗漏掉。
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@hqy ·
谢谢大伟提醒,我确实不懂标签有什么用,又不能写中文标签,只知道没标签发不了。
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@tumutanzi ·
这个问题确实很令人不快。还是经济基础的错,农村老人老无所养,靠儿女们,所以就只能对于年轻人反而逆来顺受……
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@hqy ·
是的,这种沒什么能力的老人挺可怜的。太凡有个二三百元钱养老,也不至于这样战战兢兢。我挺同情他们,只能帮点小忙,以后还得注意,帮忙不能越位,要保护自己。
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@wjr ·
这个时代的病,看病检查这样子的事只有最亲的人才能承担责任,连义工都帮不了忙的
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@hqy ·
谢谢!你提醒了我。以后得注意了,别好心办坏事。
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