哇，机子看孩子 by hqy

hive-105017 · @hqy · Dec 24 '21

$46.06

哇，机子看孩子


出去买菜，见街边转角处，一圈小不点蹲在墙角，好专注哦！咦？什么情况？咋那么听话。凑过去一看，原来在看手机。再转过来一看，孩子的家长在店门口打牌。大约怕孩子吵闹，就扔部手机安顿了事。
![img_20211221_171732_edit_12957203071981.jpg](https://images.ecency.com/DQmeDbBS7nFnVZoderymN4fECsV7fjbNfzUkyACN3XDFnkv/img_20211221_171732_edit_12957203071981.jpg)


常有这样的家长。八九十年代没手机，怕孩子在眼前碍事，就给钱。结果孩子拿着钱去网吧打游戏。打个天昏地暗，再不愿学习。

现在这么小的孩子都迷上了手机，我不知道这些孩子长大上学了是对课本知识感兴趣，还是对手机更感兴趣？

![img_20211213_102509.jpg](https://images.ecency.com/DQmcxnWLP4aaxDFWzgii9SfE3BHkWFdx3oXeoZ2J4XH2rRx/img_20211213_102509.jpg)



昨天与一熟人聊天，说她孙子一天到晚要看手机，不给就不要命的哭，沒办法又只好给他。吃饭也看，睡觉也要抱着。

与一学生聊天，她说侄子上初三，只对手机电脑有兴趣，爷爷奶奶根本管不住。一谈学习鸡飞狗跳，一玩手机不要睡觉。本来想转移环境，让他到姑姑家住一段，结果一下不看住，他就又玩上了。居然无师自通把她家电脑电视的密码都破解了。姑姑也不好把蛮管客人，真拿他没办法。马上上高中了，肯定考不上。急死人了！
![img_20211223_103428.jpg](https://images.ecency.com/DQmNQreZWLJQePLBoTwtym8kQzqPV4YPXAV9uBE2Zr9MMBX/img_20211223_103428.jpg)


是不是他们小时候就这样看上瘾了？我想起了我一亲戚的小孩，上初一时成绩很好，每周六让他来我这，我负责检查督促学习。满以为一路顺风可以好好上个一中，然后考个大学。没成想初二下期迷上了他妈妈的手机。妈妈没文化，他骗她是查资料，学文化。晚上不睡，躲到房间里玩游戏。老师发现后向家长反映，要家长配合管教。当时我也去了学校，当着家长的面把他狠狠批评了一顿。回来的路上我那亲戚说：
“他还小，不懂事。大了懂事了就好了。”

不但不批评孩子，还怕我批评重了，安慰我。结果初中毕业只能读职高。再混三年。
![img_20211125_103139.jpg](https://images.ecency.com/DQmezekmYYHBiaBQC5uSUKCLWu9dPp3fQc6pLzro8f2qxEe/img_20211125_103139.jpg)


我感觉，有什么样的家长就有什么样的孩子。孩子就是一面镜子，可以照出家长的模样。身教远胜于言传。对孩子小时候管教不力，他随时会走岔道，岔道不一样的风景更具吸引力，一旦迷了路，就好难回头。真想劝这些爱玩的家长一句：收了你的玩心，把你的手机收好，多陪陪孩子吧！
![img_20211209_190842.jpg](https://images.ecency.com/DQmYJvFWyhGWPAKHLzdFhiK97Zt4auUABJ3zt2TV6D9XreW/img_20211209_190842.jpg)

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