![IMG_20240417_073325.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmZwZMZH9kqFZBsAjAEXbNa3qUYHmZ8g7SqoUACByBo85s/IMG_20240417_073325.jpg) 买菜的路上遇到一同学。两人边走边聊。 同学属早婚早育,早几年已完成看娃任务,现在孙女已上初中,不用她看管。 前些年,我刚退休那会儿,无所事事。就去老年大学打发时间。那时她孙子小,忙前忙后脱不开身,见面就叫苦。她羡慕我的自由轻松,我羡慕她的含贻弄孙之乐。去年开始,她再不用为孙子操劳,媳妇自己带去了城里。 ![IMG_20240417_091804_edit_245077442830311.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmVqZE5C1kjWwVFF7LxEZ1v8Hqgr9cwDPMNptCH91kVezY/IMG_20240417_091804_edit_245077442830311.jpg) 老同学住得虽近,见面的机会也不多。今天见着,离不开聊聊健康、家庭。见她发福,我表示祝贺: “你现在不用看孙子,轻松自在,显得年轻了。还是你的日子过得好,神仙一样!” “哪里,你以为是胖?是肿。你看我的脚,下午就浮肿,早上好些。我女儿让我做了全面检查,又沒明显问题。老头子天天烟酒不断,痛风酒风常常一起来。谁也奈何不了。” ![IMG_20240417_091754.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmSeTcmvstYp2LtNvxWXxcVmgHghaSjsB9cK6r74E9PU36/IMG_20240417_091754.jpg) 我相信她说的是真的,年纪大了不上班,自律性是很差的。我家老头比他家那位小一岁,因为要上班,每天六点起床去学校。一有空抓紧时间把菜园子打理好。下班回来还不忘抱抱小孙女。 我四十岁就有骨质增生,椎间盘突出症,不上班也没见有多舒服。这两年带孙女白天黑夜的忙,也过来了。原先所有人担心我年纪大了,吃不消。建议请个保姆。我说先试着来吧,能不请就不请。 孙女马上两岁了,再过三个月老二媳妇要生了。又有好多人关心我:“到时候看你怎么忙得过来。” “一切顺其自然吧,好些事情不是我们能安排得了的,实在不行,老头子歇业,回来搭把手。现在想那么多没用。车到山前必有路,水到船路自然开。” 好些事情是人力左右不了的,我那时想跳出农门,晚婚晚育。到儿子这儿种种原因造成又更晚了。我感觉冥冥之中自有天意,不用太在意应该怎样生活,人算不如天算。存在就是合理。不用为眼前的苟且忧郁,也不用为今天的顺遂得意。日子过则过矣,欣然坦然就对了。 ![IMG_20240417_073449_edit_245212648804249.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmUNcfgjQ4SGzLTqqW1oSZMpbNb9RR8MMDTYMH8j74B2Ub/IMG_20240417_073449_edit_245212648804249.jpg)
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abit | 0 | 6,162,118,764,356 | 30% | ||
boatymcboatface | 0 | 158,976,370,843 | 8% | ||
kingscrown | 0 | 6,635,800,991 | 8% | ||
theshell | 0 | 42,533,077,001 | 8% | ||
good-karma | 0 | 10,664,448,666 | 1% | ||
deanliu | 0 | 3,078,206,715,895 | 70% | ||
andyjim | 0 | 489,380,599 | 100% | ||
lemooljiang | 0 | 32,018,322,901 | 100% | ||
magicmonk | 0 | 2,394,979,148,567 | 50% | ||
laoyao | 0 | 17,059,937,712 | 30% | ||
midnightoil | 0 | 60,349,077,196 | 30% | ||
xiaohui | 0 | 5,290,945,909 | 30% | ||
oflyhigh | 0 | 1,088,505,148,579 | 30% | ||
rivalhw | 0 | 1,326,546,808,428 | 100% | ||
helene | 0 | 383,668,306,641 | 30% | ||
esteemapp | 0 | 2,626,316,852 | 1% | ||
lucknie | 0 | 142,945,423 | 100% | ||
dumping | 0 | 109,024,058 | 100% | ||
bxt | 0 | 127,251,931,671 | 30% | ||
exec | 0 | 483,285,430,148 | 30% | ||
eval | 0 | 1,012,833,703,776 | 30% | ||
livinguktaiwan | 0 | 1,592,517,973,149 | 50% | ||
travelgirl | 0 | 133,750,671,955 | 60% | ||
idx | 0 | 7,192,978,485 | 30% | ||
cn-reader | 0 | 14,305,201,109 | 50% | ||
tvb | 0 | 7,288,772,695 | 50% | ||
karja | 0 | 12,682,872,997 | 10% | ||
tipu | 0 | 1,636,776,037,469 | 10% | ||
kimzwarch | 0 | 17,352,463,497 | 4% | ||
yellowbird | 0 | 1,352,247,044 | 100% | ||
davidke20 | 0 | 372,850,703,969 | 100% | ||
diosarich | 0 | 562,542,169 | 5% | ||
minloulou | 0 | 5,940,522,775 | 70% | ||
hqy | 0 | 11,028,474,723 | 100% | ||
gtpjfoodbank | 0 | 7,635,134,311 | 90% | ||
metten | 0 | 136,013,753 | 100% | ||
esteem.app | 0 | 313,845,441 | 1% | ||
namchau | 0 | 5,934,876,858 | 70% | ||
japanguide | 0 | 951,690,073 | 60% | ||
jychbetter | 0 | 751,104,647,328 | 100% | ||
cn-book | 0 | 404,013,138 | 100% | ||
paulmoon410 | 0 | 7,336,826,500 | 25% | ||
halleyleow | 0 | 6,119,607,706 | 80% | ||
cn-movie | 0 | 192,887,413 | 100% | ||
vivia | 0 | 729,176,123 | 100% | ||
ahmadmangazap | 0 | 2,002,286,648 | 0.5% | ||
heidimarie | 0 | 6,648,778,539 | 15% | ||
sinochip | 0 | 480,270,638 | 100% | ||
xiaoli | 0 | 459,994,576 | 100% | ||
yumisee | 0 | 797,231,672 | 50% | ||
joeliew | 0 | 4,657,437,994 | 100% | ||
vamos-amigo | 0 | 4,734,495,829 | 100% | ||
steemitbloggers | 0 | 43,845,164,895 | 100% | ||
el-dee-are-es | 0 | 4,559,513,544 | 10% | ||
crypticat | 0 | 71,949,053,534 | 25% | ||
archisteem | 0 | 1,273,700,841 | 7.5% | ||
dses | 0 | 54,291,996,115 | 80% | ||
longer | 0 | 848,526,424 | 2.5% | ||
harkar | 0 | 205,298,148,885 | 20% | ||
idakarlsen | 0 | 83,979,844,981 | 20% | ||
pet.society | 0 | 14,701,212,653 | 6% | ||
minminlou | 0 | 556,800,444 | 56% | ||
annepink | 0 | 298,980,714,633 | 49.3% | ||
bichen | 0 | 2,055,030,390 | 100% | ||
sasaadrian | 0 | 15,705,294,944 | 20% | ||
wherein | 0 | 7,188,427,665 | 30% | ||
steemegg | 0 | 20,618,240,407 | 50% | ||
cnstm | 0 | 35,852,989,245 | 30% | ||
fusion.lover | 0 | 36,180,953,159 | 100% | ||
a-secondchance | 0 | 18,216,813,467 | 100% | ||
mia-cc | 0 | 13,030,515,753 | 100% | ||
fintian | 0 | 549,097,728 | 100% | ||
kryptogames | 0 | 3,730,166,611 | 10% | ||
lovelemon | 0 | 44,099,450,283 | 25% | ||
helgalubevi | 0 | 11,743,853,855 | 25% | ||
omnivori | 0 | 2,097,647,468 | 90% | ||
lut-studio | 0 | 486,868,186 | 25% | ||
cxy | 0 | 1,922,691,206 | 50% | ||
cryptogambit | 0 | 1,442,897,021 | 7.5% | ||
whangster79 | 0 | 1,134,984,426,321 | 50% | ||
bcm | 0 | 890,906,720 | 7.5% | ||
dappstats | 0 | 4,736,012,909 | 15% | ||
marygong77777 | 0 | 83,569,413,698 | 40% | ||
dbfoodbank | 0 | 4,287,337,068 | 76% | ||
weddinggift | 0 | 1,366,767,154 | 100% | ||
starnote | 0 | 337,431,750 | 100% | ||
moochain.net | 0 | 339,912,432 | 100% | ||
julesquirin | 0 | 701,615,448 | 2% | ||
travelflower | 0 | 2,001,013,831 | 40% | ||
ecency | 0 | 545,277,039,889 | 1% | ||
jywahaha | 0 | 1,863,468,423 | 100% | ||
cronicasdelcesar | 0 | 4,989,628,186 | 100% | ||
ecency.stats | 0 | 352,800,307 | 1% | ||
blogstats | 0 | 720,818,642 | 100% | ||
yubaibai6 | 0 | 51,336,817,343 | 100% | ||
philipmak | 0 | 1,344,643,606 | 50% | ||
koshwe | 0 | 897,132,847 | 50% | ||
wendyburger | 0 | 546,581,599 | 50% | ||
tingjie | 0 | 213,938,492,905 | 100% | ||
mao317 | 0 | 1,715,297,800 | 100% | ||
zhangyan-123 | 0 | 283,958,728,059 | 100% | ||
alpha-omega | 0 | 53,264,910,675 | 50.7% | ||
ilark | 0 | 251,458,409,018 | 100% | ||
mamoti | 0 | 18,865,216,031 | 100% | ||
eric.gundam | 0 | 1,467,184,827 | 64% | ||
hive-195880 | 0 | 2,137,468,425 | 50% | ||
emviagem | 0 | 833,345,488 | 25% | ||
lifeisajourney | 0 | 784,672,505 | 72% | ||
revolverocelotyt | 0 | 743,817,683 | 10% | ||
theory23 | 0 | 0 | 100% |
@tipu curate
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谢谢詹老师!
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<a href="https://tipu.online/hive_curator?magicmonk" target="_blank">Upvoted 👌</a> (Mana: 30/60) <a href="https://peakd.com/hive/@reward.app/reward-app-quick-guide-updated" target="_blank">Liquid rewards</a>.
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心态好👍👍
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