 忙得晕头转向的一天。 早上正忙的时候，收到一位朋友的微信，“现在方便吗？有个稿子想请您帮我指导一下。” 随即发过来一个文件。说是他做的一个社科课题的成果，想投稿某媒体的理论版，让我帮忙修改。 我想拒绝，表示自己对这个课题不熟悉。朋友说，就从文字上提提意见。 我在微信输入框里打了“不行”两字，犹豫良久，最终删掉，发了一句，“我早上比较忙，中午的时候我看看”。 中午，硬着头皮看完他这篇晦涩难懂的论文。又憋了半天，给他写了三点意见。午休的时间就这样消耗了。 下午，正忙的时候，接到另一位高校朋友的电话，让帮忙处理一笔课题费用。这事倒不用费时间，只需要提供我个人的信息。但这事是有风险的。照道理应该拒绝，但我话到嘴边，又变成了“好的”。 快下班时，在高速公路上班的表弟发来信息，说自己今年公司的外宣任务还没完成，写了篇新闻简讯 能否帮忙修改修改。。。 我还能说什么呢？只能回复“什么内容发给我看看”。好在修改一篇新闻稿，也并不费事。 不会说“不”的人，就只能自己烦恼。
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