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life · @irisz · Aug 17 '18

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每日三省吾身：需得内外兼修

今早在地铁上，遇见一对穿戴十分讲究的中年夫妻，丈夫衬衫加西裤，头发打理的很有范儿；妻子深蓝色亚麻旗袍，发丝整齐有型，看起来十分儒雅，给人很好的视觉感受，让人感觉这是一对有学问有修养的夫妻。

可是他们上车后的举动，却显得有些表里不一。

早高峰的地铁是非常拥挤的，上班族都面带倦容，略显疲惫，这里面有多少人是昨晚加班到深夜，早晨又挤在这高峰的地铁上再次获得片刻小憩。

地铁到某站后，有乘客离开座位下车，临近座位的男女青年都没有急着去抢这难得的空座，男士示意旁边陌生的女孩请她坐，但是这些谦让在那位中年太太抢座位的过程中都成为多余之举。下车的乘客刚离开座位，后面的太太就挤过人墙一屁股坐下去～

又过了两站，中年太太旁边座位的乘客也下车，中年太太立马用身体占住座位叫她丈夫过来坐。（手机里有他们的照片，真的好想给他们爆个照，但又想想他们也是为人父母，万一被自己的儿女看到……）

且不说这样倚老卖老占座真的好吗？ 何况夫妻俩并不是很老，地铁上的头发花白的农民工伯伯都不会这样去抢一个座位。虽然这样拿农民工伯伯来举例，略有不当，但是此处并无阶级偏见之意。只是想说，外表儒雅穿着高档并不能代表一个人的素质，素质和修养真的是内在的东西，是多少华丽服饰也彰显不来的。农民工伯伯担心自己的衣服弄脏座位，宁愿在有空座的时候选择坐在地上。此时他是尊重别人的，同时其他人也是十分尊重和赞赏他们的无私和内在的高尚品质，从而人们也就完全不会在意座位被弄脏，真心实意的请他们到座位上去坐。甚至把空座专门留下……


写这篇文章不想批评什么，也不想赞美什么，只是提醒自己一定不要成为一个表里不一的人。希望自己能够做到真正的有涵养，内外兼修才好。也希望在自己年老后不会倚老卖老欺负年轻人，希望自己能够一直尊重别人，也受人尊重。

感谢今天遇到的一切。



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