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Seing that one  friend who's been  a friend of you in about a year makes us more inspiring and motivate us to take them back despite those misunderstanding happen in the past. Every friendship has it's own stories that can't tell to anyone. A story that everyone expect to be good and make them think that even those challenges happen they still maintain their strong friendship. But my stories was opposite to those expectations.

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Good day lovely Hiver's,  it's me again your @itsmary18 at your service.  Today and also last night was a big celebration ahead.  You know why? I know you all didn't know, kidding.  I want to share the special day of that one friend of mine who's been my sister in a long time, she's like a big sister to me honestly but because of those situations that makes us separate our stories have a bad plot twist that can't hold. Ops I don't want to spoil you, I will make it thrill HAHAH kidding.  If you want to know it, come and lets read the happenings and stories about her day and to our friendship.


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I came here together with my friend jasmin due to the fact that we've been invited as one of the debutant candles. I never thought that lisa the debutant will invited me but she's the one who approached me and ask if I can be the one of her candles and I said yes. We arrived at her house exactly 3:30, due to the fact that she said the program will start at 3:pm but expectation vs. reality.  

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They prepare the make-up while us is in the corner waiting for the others to come. Later on our friends since grade 10 arrived which is Anthonia and Fatima. 

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Were very closed of Anthonia since the day of grade 10. We've been separated after the grade 10 graduation due to the fact that her parents decide to bring her to the city so that she can continue pursuing her dream course which is Accountancy. The school we've been in the last year had no ABM strand so her parents want her to study to the city but they doesn't know that IIS has already an ABM strand but it's too late cause Anthonia already enrolled at the city. That's the cause of our separation,  but that doesn't stop us from being a friend. We continue contacting each other and if she had a vacant day she can visit us. Let's go back to the topic, after that the three of us was talking about our day in grade 10. Talking nonsense things until the grandma of lisa approach us and said that we can go to the table due to the fact that some of the visitors are already in there.

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We take our seat on the left side, and the emcee are already announced about the event. Can't tell cause in my part it's was so genuine seing one of my friend reach their legality. That one whos been once a girl turn into a woman. 

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This picture are before and after we take our dinner. I take a lot of pic together with Anthonia cause I know it take to long agian before we meet each other so I made some remembrance. How gorgeous this lady is right? 

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The time came and all of the candles are preparing for speech. I already prepared mine so its not that nervous but I'm so embarrassed to my self due to the fact that  the long speech I prepare is I didn't finish to tell because of emotion so the technique I think was I choose the important part of my speech and that was the one I told to her. Even though it's not that long but I hope she can appreciate it. After the candles, the 18th roses are in. The best part in 18th roses for me is tha last dance, it's too pretty seing her with her father enjoying and feeling the music. After the dance we decide to take some pictures together with the debutant.  

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 Each friendship are not perfect, some are destroyed because of betrayal and some are separated due to a personal reasons but mine are different. I and Elisa was so very close since in grade 7, she's my first close friend that time until the covid 19 came and we didn't see each other. Until we became grade 9 and we didn't expect to be classmates agian, at first were to shy to approach each other because of how many days not seing but after all still ended up for friendship again. Not until in our grade 10 day, were still classmates and we took the same chairs to seat. She bring her cousin, our transfery. The happenings was still smooth not until she already closed to Fatima and Shane. 

They are always together, going to the canteen, to the cr, they are inseparable and I feel jealous that time, because instead of me being the one with her, she's always with Fatima and Shane. Ang I think she forgot about me.Although me and Fatime are friends but I don't like  to share of what is mine, I want elisa to go with me and not with  them but I can't stop her due to the fact that I'm only her friend. Our situation continued until one day I ignore her, it's hard for me at first cause she's beside me. Untill jasmin noticed about thad and she ask me what happened and a tell her what I feel, she's that kind of a friend that always there ti give advice and I'm so blessed with that cause untill now she's still my friend. She advice me to talked to lisa and solved our misunderstanding, at first it's against on my part because of pride but later on she talked to elisa. 

And our graduation came and we still didn't solve our misunderstanding, my guilt was on there and also the overthink thay what if she decide to go to other schools and we still have misunderstanding so I take the chance to make one move and tell her about my part, and we ended up together. Not untill in grade 11-12, were not classmates anymore due to the fact that she took HUMSS strand and I took ABM strand. At first we still approaching each other untill one day she stop, this situation continued until we became grade 12 proceed to our graduation ball and to the graduation. No friendship are perfect but despite those misunderstanding we've face were still choose to go back eacg other. I realize that without any trials we can't test a relationship on how strong it is, it depends on how we can handle and aolve it. We all have pride but in different level. She show me what true friendship really means, even though a lot of misunderstanding came to our life we ended up coming to each others life and I'm happy  witnessing her to her birthday as she turns into a woman in legal age. 


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