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In order to really enjoy life and be a truly happy person, you need to respect and appreciate yourself. But the modern world dictates its own stereotypes and rules, which undermines the self-confidence of many people. If you want to succeed in modern society, you need to know how to learn to respect yourself and appreciate. 

Many people know that the truth of life is that if you do not respect yourself, respectively, and the people around you will not treat you with respect. Many know, but a minority uses it in their lives. 


# So, in order to respect yourself you need to understand a few simple things.


- Accept yourself. Learn to accept yourself as you are, with all your character flaws and your appearance flaws. There are no ideal people, but there are self-confident and self-confident people. 

- Self-development. Regularly engage in self-development, strive for excellence, read books, work on your habits and skills.

- Love. Learn to love yourself, love it, but in moderation. Egoism is not love for oneself, but satisfaction of one's own needs. 

- Indulge yourself. Make it a rule to pamper yourself. Write a list of what will give you pleasure and make you a little happier, it can be shopping, taking a warm bath, reading a book, doing what you love.

- Patience. Learn to treat yourself more tolerant, do not demand too much from yourself, if something does not work, do not criticize yourself, but just try again and you will certainly succeed.

- Favourite business. If you go to work five days a week, which depresses you, you hardly Wake up in the morning, work brings only negative emotions and pay for work, then think about changing jobs. Think about what you like to do the most and how you can make money on it. If the main source of income will be a favorite thing that will bring pleasure and satisfaction, the question of how to learn to respect yourself, will become irrelevant to you.

- Environment. Look around carefully, evaluate the people with whom you communicate. Is there a person in this environment with whom you are uncomfortable to communicate? If the answer is Yes, then try to reduce your communication to a minimum or completely abandon it, you do not need negative emotions.

- Promise. Try to fulfill all the promises made to yourself, especially if it concerns your desires or goals. If you're not sure you can keep your promise, don't promise. Remember that with each fulfilled promise, your self-esteem rises, and with it, and respect for yourself.

- Comparison. Never and under no circumstances compare yourself to other people, especially those who are doing better than yours. You can analyze that person's qualities, actions, or life principles and learn something useful from him, but don't compare yourself to him.

- Past. Say goodbye, in the end, with his past, especially for resentment and unpleasant situations. Forgive in the soul of all his offenders, mentally wish them good luck and let them go in peace. As long as the past holds you, you cannot fully enjoy the present and look to the bright and beautiful future.

In General, if you are thinking about how to learn to appreciate yourself, think about the reasons why you do not. Perhaps the culprit complexes and low self-esteem, maybe you are not satisfied with your own life? Of course, you want to be respected, loved and appreciated by the people around you. To do this, you need to learn to do it, and not only in relation to themselves, but also to those people who surround you.



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