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# How to know yourself

Initially, since the birth of each endowed with certain abilities and talents. But as you grow up, for various reasons, lost the predisposition and the ability to learn skills faster,but if you work hard to develop them. 

Also, a small child, unlike an adult, according to psychologists, is the first years of life in harmony with itself and subconsciously has some truths. But because the child has a poorly developed speech, knowledge and vision of life in General, he can not accurately and correctly formulate what he needs, his emotions and thoughts.

An adult sooner or later thinks about how to know yourself and what is the meaning of life. When a person comes to this issue can not say exactly, it does not depend on any social role or age. 

Most often people think about knowing themselves, finding inner peace and harmony when they are not satisfied with something in their own lives, a series of negative events and problems, stress and depression.
As soon as you make contact with yourself, many life truths will be revealed to you, because the knowledge of life and the outside world goes through the knowledge of yourself as a person.


# The view from the outside.

So, first you need to hear yourself, your inner voice, look at yourself, so to speak, from the side. Write down all your strengths and weaknesses, determine your behavior and reaction in different situations. To do this, you can even make a list that will always be in front of your eyes, and with which you will work in the process of self-development. Now that you've met yourself, ask yourself, " would I be friends or would I be in touch with someone like me?" 

Try to answer this question sincerely, do not be afraid of yourself. If you still said no, you probably need to understand why, perhaps it is worth changing any traits or behavior. But do not criticize yourself and scold yourself, you need to treat yourself with understanding and patience. Learn to love and appreciate yourself, but remember that selfishness must be reasonable.


# Look around.

What is your environment? Remember the saying "Tell me who your friend is and I'll tell you who you are"? In this wise expression lies the truth with deep meaning, which will help you understand how to know yourself.

Carefully analyze your social circle, especially pay attention to those people with whom you have to communicate daily. Do you enjoy communicating with this person or is it depressing? Would you like to give up this communication or would you like to find more time for meetings? 

Think about your life and the people around you. This is how you imagined your life five years ago, is this how you imagine it in five years in the future? Perhaps you should reconsider your surroundings and minimize communication with unpleasant people for you?

This is a negative in your life, hence the oppressed state and chronic fatigue, you do again what you do not want, what does not satisfy you and does not make you happier.


# Look inside.

Contact yourself, stay alone with yourself and try to talk, start an internal dialogue. Understand your thoughts and feelings, determine what you need and what you would like to change, do not deceive yourself, but speak, write better, sincerely, what you need. Be as honest with yourself and never step over yourself and your principles, learn to deny and say no, also help people more often, especially those who really need your help, do good deeds. 

Engage in self-development and learn to find happiness in today. Self-knowledge is to experience a sense of inner peace, happiness and satisfaction with yourself and your life.




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