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To give up too quickly and to angrily walk away from a gathering and to loose hope very easily if you don't keep to time of appointment were my best and extreme down side.

I am this impatient and waiting a minute longer is to me waiting for ages and if  **if I should see things from another person's perception, then that person would be Engineer Emmanuel Ibeh**. 


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>Every one you encounter is for a reason.

In the year 2010 precisely, I met this man whose son was in my class and one day I was called to the office that a parent wanted to see me so I went and that was my encounter with this engineer and a minister of the gospel whose life is to me a sermon.  

Why did he come to the school.
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According to him, he noticed great change in his son's school work and has come to know his son's new teacher and from there I was invited to the house and the rest becomes a story.

@Galenkp in this week's #weekend-engagement concept outlined series of writing options which are obviously of great impact, of all these talking about *Weekend perception change* becomes the center of this post. You might also want to read and take part in the contest. Here's the [Link](https://hive.blog/hive-168869/@galenkp/week-129-weekend-engagement-concept).

>You have admirers.

When I encountered Mr Emmanuel Ibeh, I observed this long endurance in him which to me I see as weakness but with time I was wrong it's a strength in  which is lacking in me. To my greatest shock this man was working with a dredging company which owed him 7 months salaries yet he goes to work early, discharges his duties diligently believing that the company would pay and in the 8th, the company paid all the workers their complete salaries and he said to me 'Vincent you need to be patient in life'.

>At the moment I quit the result comes.

I didn't believe in anything called endurance test . But I just had the limit to what I endure mostly when it has to do with waiting. And one particular thing keep reoccurring, that if I am waiting for someone maybe after an hour or so I immediately I decides to leave the person comes. And I have lost some job interview due to my impatiens. 
Today, I have learned to go extra mile which q defeat to my impatiens behavior and the credit goes engineer Ibeh. And I hardly miss out on opportunities due to hasty and unreasonable and cheap excuses of it's taking too long.

If I'm be another, I will be you.|
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For this week, I will be engineer Emma Ibeh. This is because, he understands what it means to be humble , he sees life in a little different way making him have a shock absorber to issues of life and living.  

Through this man I have developed a stronger mental attitude and giving people the opportunity to get better even when they don't deserve such a beautiful chance .

*I have lost a lot of my favorites bad attitude by my encounter with this man*. 

I have chains of other people who by virtue of reading their article here on the #hiveblog have shapen my perception . Maybe I use this opportunity to thank the likes of @tarazkp whose writing pattern and content models mine and @clixmoney who is the reason why I'm here. I could have love to be these people or even more but if Mr Emmanuel Ibeh didn't do the most needed job in me I won't be here.

Thanks for visiting my blog.
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