The realities and realization of marriage by jenthoughts

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hive-153850 · @jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

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The realities and realization of marriage

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I am NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth) until age 25 when my husband came. I never entered into a relationship because I always think not to marry. I believe back then that entering into a relationship means you are going to get married. Why enter into a relationship if not for marriage? At least that's how I thought before.

When I started working at the age of 20, I had workmates who are married. I am always there listening to their complaints, rants as they express the realities of marriage. I have seen husbands beating their wives, I have seen husbands and wives being unfaithful to each other.

Though I can say that my parents are a good example for us about being a married couple, I always see the negative side of marriage upon listening to stories from my workmates and seeing around. I then uttered words **I don't want to get married** but I want to have a child.

My mother laughed at me and she even said who will be the father of my child? I then think again, **I don't want to be a fornicator, I don't want to engage in premarital sex. It is against God.**

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Until my husband came into my life and I said YES! I wasn't NBSB anymore and I wasn't single anymore.

We are 7 years and 6 months married, a years having both happiness and sadness, a years full of adjustment, learning and growing.

**Realities of being married**

Life change a lot when you get married. You have a bigger responsibilities, you have a wife or husband entrusted to you.

Now, you can't decide alone, you always have a partner to consider in all things especially in the decision making.

**Realizations as married**

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmWqPBVPG4mU9USXin9H7mXK16n5WmDqRgPT3QKDG4o6nN/img_20230606_174101_433.jpg)

Married life is not exempted for quarrels, misunderstanding, crying moments, jealousy, problems and challenges in life. They are present in married life but we need to be strong, we need to understand, we need to forgive, we need to trust and we need to respect.

Being married, we don't need to focus on the imperfections but instead we need to appreciate and cherish those positive and good things that our partner has.

We need to encourage each other not to discouraged. We need to uplift our partner's emotion when down. We need to have ears ready to listen not just for good things but also during down times.

Being married, we have shared plans, we have shared dreams and hopes.

We need to put God as the center of our relationship and the more we are closer to Him, the more our relationship will be closer too. We need God in our relationship because alone we cannot surpass everything.

**Marriage is sacred and it is a union of a man and woman having love to each other. God is the one who officiate marriage first in the garden of Eden in the time of Adam and Eve. Marriage is perfect but the human imperfections made the marriage vows broken.**

My heart is really broken, seeing husband and wives divorce or separated making marriage like a toy that if they don't like it anymore, they can easily throw it away and replace with a new one.

We are not a perfect couple but we are praying to be a good husband and wife to each other in all aspects. May we never forget our vows because marriage is a lifetime commitment. May God will help us.

***

Thank you so much for reading. See you again in my next blog.

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@amberkashif · Jun 6 '23

I agree with you on many aspects.  Nothing like perfect marriage exists. We are humans and humans are meant to be imperfect. 
A good marriage is the one where there is respect for eachother despite difference.
No two people can be a like. It gives birth to quarrels.

Nevertheless, what matters the most is how we resume those quarrels, either being respectful to eachother or being nasty.

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Yes @amberkashif no one is alike because we are unique and our differences would lead to quarrels and misunderstanding but learning to understand, learning to respect and learning to forgive is the best way to have unity despite differences.

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@amberkashif · Jun 6 '23

Right. Our efforts to learn all rhis would make our relationship stronger

!LUV !LADY

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@chikakiku · Jun 6 '23

If two person engage on marriage, it's all a matter of sharing everything no matter what aspect like financially, physically and even emotions, two person are united into one in making decisions for family, but sadly there are instances that there's a misunderstanding that leads to broken marriage.

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Misunderstanding are really always there @chikakiku but if we don't learn to understand each other the relationship will really end up to be broken. But if both partner will learn to understand, adjust and accept the differences then learn to respect our partner, harmony will grow and love will grow too.

Thanks for dropping by.

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@graciousvic · Jun 6 '23

Wow , this article coming from a woman who have been married for over 7 years is encouraging.
I see you guys are really friends who got married and that is the best part in marriage. I wish you stronger bonds and more wedding anniversary to come

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Yes we know each other for more than three years before we go into relationship. We then have two years knowing more each other before marriage. 

Thank you so much for your well wishes @graciousvic. Thanks for reading.

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@graciousvic · Jun 7 '23

That's good when you marry your best friend

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@jane1289 · Jun 6 '23

Have you ever fought and separated for a moment? I wonder though because you too really look like those aren't fighting with each other hehe 

!LADY

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Hehehe Akala mo lang Yun sis. Yes off course we do have misunderstanding too like every couple has. But it won't last long. I will just don't talk and keep silent until he will talk to me first and we are then okay again. Saying the word sorry is not common to us hahaha. Kapag nagsalita na, it means okay na hehehe. Ang tahimik Ng Bahay if may di pagkakaunawaan hahaha

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@jane1289 · Jun 6 '23

Haha..buti yung ganun imbes mag sigawan 😂😂... Para kang si Parot, off course haha..

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@ladytoken · Jun 6 '23

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@macchiata · Jun 6 '23

How long does it take for you to date and what makes you sure that he is the one?

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23 (edited)

We met by 2009, we are like enemies that time but we are friends too. We are in the relationship at 2013 and we got married at 2015. We chose to have long observation so we will know each other more. 

I prayed to God for a man who is close to Him, a god-fearing man, a man who has the same belief with me so we wont have problems about religion in the future. If a man has God in his life, everything good will follow. He already stopped drinking alcoholic drinks and he is not smoking which I hate very much. 

I tried to asked God for a sign and he did it, so I said yes ☺️. He is my first and last boyfriend.

Thanks for your time @macchiata

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@mojtee07 · Jun 6 '23

I'm really happy about this write up. You've really enlightened we singles. There is no perfect marriage anywhere, what we need is tolerance and understanding, then put all our best in our union. Thanks for this lovely piece lady

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

I am happy that you get some message about marriage and married life. Hopefully you find or you are dating with the person God prepared for you and will unite in marriage and will have a good married life. 

Thanks for your time, @mojtee07

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@mojtee07 · Jun 7 '23

The pleasure is mine

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@offia66 · Jun 6 '23

Everything changes from the very minute you yes to your partner, bigger responsibilities, marriage is indeed not easy.

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

You're right @offia66 many will change and what is important is to change for the better, not for the bitter.

Thanks for your time.

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@poshthreads · Jun 6 '23

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Thank you @poshthreads

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@tahastories1 · Jun 6 '23

Your article is completely practical as you have experienced the marriage which is a complex and simple thing at the same thing. It comes up with number of challenges responsibilities and duties

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Thanks for the appreciation @tahastories1. I hope you learn from it. Thanks for stopping by.

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@threedotz · Jun 6 '23

Marriage is a beautiful thing. It brings companionship and love and also helps in personal development. It’s quite sad that it isn’t what it used to be before now. The rate of divorce and unfaithfulness makes a lot of people reconsider.

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@jenthoughts · Jun 6 '23

Divorce is indeed a sad reality. We just need to pray that we won't fall into it.

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