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Replacing Unhappiness and Control with Growth and Equality
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Here is a quote I read from the book *"Love, Medicine, and Miracles”* that feels right to talk about today! 

## Replacing Unhappiness and Control with Growth and Equality

 *“Unhappiness arises from attempts to control events and other people over which one has no power. The same futile attempt, born of our fears and resentments, weakens the body and leads to disease.”*

How amazingly true this is as I consistently each day experience a very happy life while focusing totally on what I contribute and what happens in the lives of others each day.

In other words, I focus on what I am contributing to life *(service)* and being attentive to the needs of those around me. For at least ten years, my focus instead was on what I was getting out of life and directing the lives of others, which left me in consistent frustration with frequently feeling I was not getting enough, and deep unhappiness and fear of others not going what I wanted.

In fact, it got so bad I simply could not stand to live that way any more and I became open to a new way of living. Ironically, one could make the argument that the way I live today is nothing more than advanced selfishness with my goal to experience the maximum joy in life based on having learned what works to produce that in helping others experience the same. 

Read more on my website at *https://jerrybanfield.com/unhappiness-growth-equality/.*

Love,

Jerry Banfield

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@adamaslam · 
Attitude is the key we also benefit from team work this is vital we have to be in relationships that have mutual respect and encouragement.  Thank you jerry for the work you are putting in to this platform.  You will be a factor to its success when it becomes the future of economic transaction.  Peace Love and respect out
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@freecrypto · 
Yeah unhappiness is definitely harmful for us not in the way of mental term but also physical. 
Yup agreed as you said “unhappiness can be replaced by growth”. Unhappiness can result into financial losses also. 

Definitely it's the best blog that I have read today

Have a great day and wonderful night 😊😊
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@sourav96roy21 · 
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