Why did not you challenge Cinderella ?!
We all know the story of Cinderella, and perhaps filled the imagination of many girls. Cinderella, the beautiful and diligent girl waiting for the knight who saves her from the oppression and injustice she is subjected to by her stepmother's wife and sisters. But why Cinderella always does not try to cope?


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American author and psychologist Collette Dowling described her book "The Cinderella Complex".
This case, which as explained by many girls get hit in modern times. Waiting for an external force to change the situation, was in the story of Cinderella (Prince), and in the knot generally force often man. 



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Not only the man, but also the unconscious desire produced by the victims to be cared for by others and everyone around them. The reliability lost by the sense of responsibility and importance.

The Cinderella knot has an unfortunate effect on the girl herself and on her society, so she loses her ability to innovate and lose her self-confidence, and even trusts her daughters or makes them cling to an unsuitable partner for fear of being unable to take on responsibilities themselves or for fear of changing her situation.