The concept (or marketing product) of self-confidence leads not only to failure, but also to loneliness and exacerbated pride. The concept of self-confidence is an individualistic concept that brings into a sort of delusion of self-sufficiency for the one who owns it or the one who hopes to possess it. The individual loses more and more sense of realities by giving himself abilities he does not have, (and by denying the disabilities he has) or thinking he can get some almost superhuman abilities, which would make him to have access to some sort of assured success. So self-confidence becomes a sort of psychological doping drug, philosopher's stone, or st grail, which will give me access to the glory and life I have always dreamed of. And that, of course, with the least possible effort. There is an almost hypnotic "something" in this deceptive concept that literally disconnects people from reality and their responsibilities. This paranoid illusion, of which they are victims, makes them live in a kind of parallel dimension, which has nothing to do with real life. We dream the life we ​​could have, if only we had this "famous" self-confidence. Instead of living the real life of going to work like everyone else, paying rent and assuming the role of a studious child or playing the role of parent and good citizen. Simple roles of everyday life that require nothing but common sense, and strictly no special self-confidence. That's why the lie of the concept of self-confidence is dangerous, and inevitably leads to failure. Since it's a booby trap, a carrot that stimulates the ego, flatters it, but that does not really yield anything concrete in real life. And who has never brought you anything special to you who read these lines. You believe in rumors, and you have complexes and guilt because you've heard that ... (Incidentally, it is well known, in sales strategies and mental manipulation techniques, that guilt has always been the better way to buy) but in concrete terms you have never observed extraordinary or concrete results, in those who speak about it or who claim to have it. The star-mania of the feigners we see on TV has gone up at the head of people. And it is after this life of vanity that they run when they run behind this phony concept of self-confidence.


The only rational and realistic trust is the one we put in others. Any relationship is based on mutual trust, no one can escape this rule. True trust is the risk of being hurt by others because I trusted them. Suffering is part of life, modern man abhors the slightest suffering, and he goes so far as to invent the concept of self-confidence because he thinks that this new new mental idol will spare him suffering he refuses to be exposed, but there is no love without suffering, and the proof of love is to accept suffering for the one or the ones we love, the pseudo self-confidence n will change nothing.

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 langue suivante : françaisThe concept of self-confidence is just stupid vanity, good only for those who are not going anywhere and who are victims of all the more fallacious concepts of our consumer society. Love, glory and beauty, that is what it is supposed to bring us this new magic potion, this new god of the modern times, for which we are ready to make prayers and sacrifices, in order to have success in life. opportunity to become rich and have success and lagloire, I will not be choosy. But if I remain a simple person, leading a quiet life and not being known to anyone, I will not make it a disease either. I'm not going to blow my brain (or let others swell my brain) by telling me stories like it's because I lack confidence in myself that I do not have the life I'm dreaming of, and that I will have to pay a "specialist", a "coach", a psychiatrist, a guru in short, to give me this pseudo-need that he himself create from scratch, for the purpose of The dream life is a concept invented and fed by the media for a purely commercial purpose, and not for the sake of the well being of the consumer. It was not a work of charity that one would have invented, as one was "so" took compassion for people and wanted to do something for them, out of kindness. Stop being so naive. It's just another successful market, and you're just another donkey running behind one more carrot.


(Finally, here is the example of self-confidence that is taken, but it is exactly the same principle that applies to all concepts that revolve around you - self-love, self-esteem, knowledge of self, belief in oneself, etc., that could be united in one unique concept: The marketing of the self). Yes! you are a victim of mental manipulation, dear readers, and it may be time to wake up before your life is spoiled by chimeras and a treasure trove of treasure that is nowhere else but your own. imagination.