create account

Are you selfish? by josediccus

View this thread on: hive.blogpeakd.comecency.com
· @josediccus ·
$19.68
Are you selfish?
![1000620291.jpg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/josediccus/1000620291.jpg)







<hr>


Humans are naturally selfish, and those who truly understand human nature and attitudinal tendencies frequently use this to their advantage.

 For example, when a law, decree, or event favors one group of people while displeasing others, why do the people who benefit from it find it difficult to speak out? 

It benefits them. I have seen countless instances where freedom fighters are bought over by government bodies and given positions in places of power, becoming a part of the government they frequently criticize, and eventually being silenced.

 Typically, corrupt governments buy the loudest voices of reason, removing their edge and forcing them to name their highest price. Why? It is easier to pay 20 or 30 people than to meet the needs of 100 million people.


One of the reasons why people become voices of reason is that they began by wanting a better life for others; they understand what it feels like to be in pain because they are in pain as well, and when they gain a platform and an audience, their voices become too powerful to ignore. Equality and equity help people find a common voice. 

When people are collectively marginalized, cheated, or failed, they can unite to form a powerful coalition capable of overthrowing any government agency. However, these agencies recognize the power of unity and thus decide to weaponize money as a tool for destroying that unity. 

Most people become sworn enemies during elections, and they begin to identify as Republican or Democrat, when what they really need to identify with is the best option for the nation and country.

 Politics is the most powerful tool for sowing discord and division, and even in the twenty-first century, most people still do not understand this.



### Tilt to instincts

At its core, as I previously stated, it is easy to succumb to selfish tendencies, which stem from the implicit reason to prioritize our own selves over others. 

However, this generally prevents cooperation. When people are not united at the grassroots, it is extremely difficult for them to progress, and this has been a constant tool throughout history. 

Equality and equity will never be fully practical because people have hidden agendas, even if they appear to share common goals. 

This is why people cannot be fully united; it is stressful to fight for things that will not benefit us, or to continue to fight for betterment when our situations have already improved, but this is not the case for others. However, the instinct naturally stems from a place of comfort, laziness, and exhaustion; sometimes it is simply selfishness without a logical explanation.



## Look inwards 

Anyone can be selfish, and sometimes we have to look inside ourselves, recognize our tendencies, and choose not to give in. People can become selfish for a variety of reasons, including money. 

For example, I have always realized that my selfish tendencies are not because I do not care; they are sometimes due to laziness and illness, and on my best days, I try to self-reflect, examine my life, see what I have done wrong or right, and motivate myself to improve. 

I have a way of reaching out to people I have not treated fairly. I believe this is important because I understand how it feels to be subjected to the selfish tendencies of others; it is never a good feeling, and it hurts. 


Overall, loyalty is not something we rely on heavily; people may need to be incentivized to either lose or gain loyalty; however, nothing should truly be the reason for loyalty. It is important to recognize these gutter tendencies; we are all guilty of succumbing to them at times, but it is also important to snap out of it and choose to be better.



<hr>

<hr>


> **Interested in some more of my posts**



<hr>


<hr>

##### [Why Is the grind getting harder?](https://hive.blog/hive-146620/@josediccus/why-is-the-grind-getting-harder)



##### [Monopoly Is the Death of Civilization](https://hive.blog/hive-146620/@josediccus/monopoly-is-the-death-of-civilization)


##### [Survival: Choas and Scarcity](https://hive.blog/hive-146620/@josediccus/survival-choas-and-scarcity)


##### [Crypto: Gut & meaningful Connections](https://hive.blog/hive-146620/@josediccus/crypto-gut-and-meaningful-connections)


##### [What is the primary barrier to entry in Web3?](https://hive.blog/hive-146620/@josediccus/what-is-the-primary-barrier-to-entry-in-web3-dfo)


##### [What Are Some Things You Should not Do During A Bull Market Year?](https://hive.blog/hive-146620/@josediccus/what-are-some-things-you-should-not-do-during-a-bull-market-year-fbh)





<hr>






![1000583449.png](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/josediccus/245wPj3Vry8xz25LDZKQDYw2WnA8vCK3F2dktQeTk8zXmwB8MtmaoMPweg9wnJCXpkBEq.png)











 


πŸ‘  , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , and 213 others
properties (23)
authorjosediccus
permlinkare-you-selfish
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"peakd/2025.7.3","format":"markdown","tags":["reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"users":["josediccus"],"image":["https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/josediccus/1000620291.jpg","https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/josediccus/245wPj3Vry8xz25LDZKQDYw2WnA8vCK3F2dktQeTk8zXmwB8MtmaoMPweg9wnJCXpkBEq.png"]}
created2025-07-29 16:58:39
last_update2025-07-29 16:58:39
depth0
children17
last_payout2025-08-05 16:58:39
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value9.854 HBD
curator_payout_value9.825 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length4,869
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,518,407
net_rshares66,662,491,707,288
author_curate_reward""
vote details (277)
@amamaze ·
$0.06
Most People nowadays care only when the situation favour them, they tend to ignore others who are the victim of the situation, that's why the rulers of our countries are constantly careless about the citizen. Note this that when we talk about the government and the people of high status in the country with this selfish attitude what about we that are in low status we are as much as these people, we want to have good life by hurting our fellow struggling niggas, maybe in sharing of gift item sponsored by an helping organization to help the community, people simply decide not to distribute or take the larger percentage to their family. The conclusion is that we are still struggling we hurt ourselves too when we understand that our survival are through real suffering and I have always been bordered by this every time. 
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authoramamaze
permlinkre-josediccus-2025729t19458180z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-146620","reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-29 18:05:00
last_update2025-07-29 18:05:00
depth1
children1
last_payout2025-08-05 18:05:00
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.030 HBD
curator_payout_value0.030 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length827
author_reputation675,470,136,240
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,519,861
net_rshares209,767,531,777
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
That's what most black countries suffer especially Nigeria. I made mention of freedom fighting and people fighting to better the lives of their loved ones. Once the situation changes or they're being bribed by the government then every situation changes and there no longer care. 
Unfortunately this is how it is, I feel that somehow, the choice to not be selfish is a personal decision
properties (22)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07lqn
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:11:12
last_update2025-07-30 11:11:12
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:11:12
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length386
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,132
net_rshares0
@davideownzall ·
$0.05
in the end of the day we want better life for ourself, united until one can have benefits, romans used to say "mors tua vita mea", your success depend on someone else bad fate... would you exchange spots? i wouldnt 
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authordavideownzall
permlinkre-josediccus-t06hnq
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"tags":["hive-146620"],"app":"peakd/2025.7.3","image":[],"users":[]}
created2025-07-29 20:45:27
last_update2025-07-29 20:45:27
depth1
children1
last_payout2025-08-05 20:45:27
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.022 HBD
curator_payout_value0.023 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length215
author_reputation109,488,052,351,915
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,522,151
net_rshares156,690,471,727
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
Haha I guess no one wants to exchange a good spot with a bad one, so it's all good. Life puts us in uncomfortable situation sometimes, where we have to either focus on ourselves and divide the focus
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07lbv
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:02:21
last_update2025-07-30 11:02:21
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:02:21
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length198
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,532,976
net_rshares357,885,091
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@hiventhusiast ·
$0.05
This is true,  just that for most of us as we grow and we're  enlightened we become more conscious  of the Fact that  we're  not just living for ourselves but  for others too, we began to think of legacies, good records to bear our names and carry our voices,  but obviously  the so-called politicians  do not see this, just after their families and securing that transgenerational wealth for them selves that's all....
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorhiventhusiast
permlinkre-josediccus-2025729t233842683z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-146620","reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-29 22:38:45
last_update2025-07-29 22:38:45
depth1
children2
last_payout2025-08-05 22:38:45
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.022 HBD
curator_payout_value0.023 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length419
author_reputation26,624,109,298,818
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,525,183
net_rshares156,502,383,161
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
Yes, this is true. Most African countries have more disloyal people in their government, this is why slavery actually thrived in the 80s and early 1900s, and that's why we don't have much of a middle class at all.
properties (22)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07ljw
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:07:09
last_update2025-07-30 11:07:09
depth2
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:07:09
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length213
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,051
net_rshares0
@hiventhusiast ·
True 
properties (22)
authorhiventhusiast
permlinkre-josediccus-2025730t12453687z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["ecency"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-30 11:45:06
last_update2025-07-30 11:45:06
depth3
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:45:06
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length5
author_reputation26,624,109,298,818
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,602
net_rshares0
@mysteriousroad ·
$0.05
Yeah … being selfish is a natural tendency… sometimes we have to be selfish for our inner peace when no one can understand us and not valued us πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authormysteriousroad
permlinkre-josediccus-2025730t10245253z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-146620","reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-30 04:54:06
last_update2025-07-30 04:54:06
depth1
children2
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 04:54:06
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.051 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length147
author_reputation195,545,595,222,933
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,529,180
net_rshares156,316,902,863
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
$0.00
Yes, it's a natural tendency. To be a little selfish sometimes is actually not bad, but sometimes we have to be selfless as well.
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07lla
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:07:57
last_update2025-07-30 11:07:57
depth2
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:07:57
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.001 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length129
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,068
net_rshares5,960,982,191
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@mysteriousroad ·
Indeed 
properties (22)
authormysteriousroad
permlinkre-josediccus-2025730t171214596z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["ecency"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-30 11:42:15
last_update2025-07-30 11:42:15
depth3
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:42:15
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length7
author_reputation195,545,595,222,933
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,553
net_rshares0
@neysco ·
$0.05
Hmmnn, selfishness! It's a great thought from you! This makes me remember somethings some people have done for me in the past. You know some people can actually make you make a decision in being selfish due to some kind of attitude that they posses. I've experienced many experiences. Immediately I say this your entry, it reminds me of those bad days then.
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorneysco
permlinkre-josediccus-2025729t19163654z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-146620","reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-29 18:16:36
last_update2025-07-29 18:16:36
depth1
children1
last_payout2025-08-05 18:16:36
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.022 HBD
curator_payout_value0.023 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length357
author_reputation7,820,773,549,826
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,520,002
net_rshares156,877,593,558
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
Lol, everyone remembers one or two act of selfishness, especially in their lifetime. I remember many as well, but I'm also trying aa much as possible not to be the person I dislike. It's important to be loyal and also hope for that loyalty to be reciprocated.
properties (22)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07lgi
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:05:06
last_update2025-07-30 11:05:06
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:05:06
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length259
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,021
net_rshares0
@princessluv ·
$0.05
I get sad when I see just how quickly some people switch sides once they get a taste of power or money. The system knows how to keep real change from happening.

πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorprincessluv
permlinkre-josediccus-2025729t18314569z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"tags":["reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"app":"ecency/4.2.1-vision","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-29 18:04:03
last_update2025-07-29 18:04:03
depth1
children2
last_payout2025-08-05 18:04:03
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.022 HBD
curator_payout_value0.023 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length162
author_reputation1,206,463,211,740
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,519,848
net_rshares157,066,132,918
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
$0.00
Well, it's life, most people 99% will do the same. It takes discipline, loyalty and also the fear of God to remain loyal and not change with power and money
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07le2
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:03:39
last_update2025-07-30 11:03:39
depth2
children1
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:03:39
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.001 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length156
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,006
net_rshares3,158,729,273
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@princessluv ·
You're very right, plenty money is one big temptation that needs a lot to remain good
properties (22)
authorprincessluv
permlinkre-josediccus-2025730t115525270z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"type":"comment","tags":["ecency"],"app":"ecency/3.3.2-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-30 11:56:15
last_update2025-07-30 11:56:15
depth3
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:56:15
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length85
author_reputation1,206,463,211,740
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,798
net_rshares0
@royaluy ·
$0.04
Uhmm they say money is the root of all evil.....And this says it all
πŸ‘  
properties (23)
authorroyaluy
permlinkre-josediccus-2025730t15113305z
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"links":[],"type":"comment","tags":["hive-146620","reflections","life","proofofbrain","hive-engine","neoxian","vyb","waivio"],"app":"ecency/3.3.3-mobile","format":"markdown+html"}
created2025-07-30 00:51:12
last_update2025-07-30 00:51:12
depth1
children1
last_payout2025-08-06 00:51:12
cashout_time1969-12-31 23:59:59
total_payout_value0.018 HBD
curator_payout_value0.019 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length68
author_reputation2,989,995,502,622
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,526,840
net_rshares130,105,341,887
author_curate_reward""
vote details (1)
@josediccus ·
Indeed, it is.
properties (22)
authorjosediccus
permlinkt07lrg
categoryhive-146620
json_metadata{"app":"hiveblog/0.1"}
created2025-07-30 11:11:42
last_update2025-07-30 11:11:42
depth2
children0
last_payout1969-12-31 23:59:59
cashout_time2025-08-06 11:11:42
total_payout_value0.000 HBD
curator_payout_value0.000 HBD
pending_payout_value0.000 HBD
promoted0.000 HBD
body_length14
author_reputation2,614,792,423,566,666
root_title"Are you selfish?"
beneficiaries[]
max_accepted_payout1,000,000.000 HBD
percent_hbd10,000
post_id144,533,142
net_rshares0