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### Capacity To Aim Far Beyond



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Everyone at one point in time in their lives has felt bombarded by real-time problems. Nevertheless, a problem might suffice as a challenge before becoming full-fledged. The ability to recognize what might tend to become a problem is pure skills and not relative to everyone. 

However, everyone has proactive skills; the ability to discern, place personal assertions or deductions to a phenomenon or a situation. It is however, the degree or levels to which these skills are enacted makes people to be different from one another. Naturally we're equipped, the mind is a natural processor, a sophisticated tool that works as a shock absorber.

 In a perfect state or condition, we can handle the most difficult challenges or problems. Inasmuch as this is so, the mind is expandable, its reach is astronomical, and sometimes we tend to surprise ourselves as to how much we can accomplish. 




Putting the mind to use every day, expanding its ability to make dicey decision overtime, can strength its capacity. For example, people who are footballers or doctors are quick thinkers. This is because they need to access situations and proffer solutions or bring their formulated ideas into play, weigh the advantage and consequences of their prospective course of action in a just short timeframe. 

The aim is the goal. The reason why people get better at handling a difficult situation is dependent on how much time and energy they've put in, plus the experience and failure they have accrued overtime. There's one thing about failure, we either deny its impact, or try to demean its impact. At the end of the day, when we go with the latter, we achieve mental maturity at handling the most difficult situation. It's not magic, it is the time taken plus the efforts induced. 

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### Whole: Within & Without


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 Everyone in life is often faced with issues, be it money, health issues, psychological or even mental issues and this can be a huge problem especially with handling problems and challenges. Life requires one to be a whole and  complete; mentally and physically, as well as maintain a balance within. 

Have you ever discovered that when you go through a heartbreak or maybe sick in hospital, or probably intrapersonal issues which might seem inexplicable, it's always difficult to *"think"* or even make sound decisions, this is because the mind is tainted and filled up with extracurricular activities. It prevents one from projecting rightly.

 First of, for one to make the right decisions, they will need to rely on their mental sharpness, which Inevitability should come from wellness or wholesomeness. The ability to process well, having no extra layer of thoughts to process, being free of niggling emotions. 

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It is however, very difficult to achieve a favorable state of wholeness. On a daily basis, people are fazed with reality. The aspect of the truth that comes with challenges. Life's hurdles has a way of tinkering with the courage of people, and this is why we exhibit different kinds of emotions. 

The truth is, emotions makes us human, but sometimes it makes us unwhole, when emotions aren't channelled rightly, we tend to make mistakes or face consequences. In reality, we react to different problems in our lives not the same ways and understanding this pattern is firstly important in achieving balance. 

When people go through things, it unbalances them, the impact makes them erratic, hence making it difficult for them to hold their own and make good decisions going forward. No one is immune to being knocked into a state of panic, anxiety or trepidation when they're faced with a problem, the degree to how a corresponding emotion is being expressed depends on the impact made by a certain challenge. 

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### Declustering Emotions?


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Training oneself is important, but then, there's a huge obstacle. So many people express distaste and disappointment when they discover how weak-willed they are. These disappointments creates a feeling of disgust and shame. They dwell on their frustration. Firstly, no one should be apologetic for being too emotional. Accepting this as a huge part of one can help a person to individually chose to channel or express their emotions discreetly. 

We're biologically wired differently, and no one should feel incomplete for being wired the way they are. However, one can work towards being better, acknowledging this personally is total bliss. Training oneself is a long-term process that is never complete. With each experience in life and how we relate to them, we definitely get better. 






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> **Interested in some more of my works?**



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**My name is @Josediccus, a young Nigerian entrepreneur who is a Vlogger, A Psychologist, Poet, Sports Writer/Analyst & Personal Finance Coach. I'm using my contents as a process to create shared meaning as well as create expressions through which people on/off hive can relate. I believe content is a process to be enjoyed and relished and I'm up for any collaborations in my field stated above. Cheers**


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