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Trepidation becomes a certainty when we understand that we can't bend the inevitablility of reality. For example the inevitablility of having cancer is death at some point, though it might be delayed as much as we can't be wary or reckoning with it, it doesn't give us a choice to choose. The truth is most times we don't get to choose who we are, but we might influence who we get to become but even as at that it makes brain when we think about it. In life the factors that remains unchanged is death but can this be a motivation to make a certain kind of impact despite not having circumstances ingridients to influence or spice up or life? The truth is it's always seldom and the reason why you don't know is that there are a lot of success stories as to people who despite terrible circumstances surrounding them changed the outcome of the initial plan for their lives but the truth is for just one sucess story, there are a million *failure stories* that probably you don't know.
**So what my point?**my point is that we're often too determine as a result of speeches that holds no bound we try and try because someone gave us the key to success by telling us how focused we needed to be, it become synonymous to arming someone with riffle in other to face a pride of lion. See we're flesh and blood before we're geniuses and prodigies, sometimes too we are weakened by the fact that we're organs, kidney and bladder and the sheer brilliance we think we have is halted immediately all these things stops fuctioning and that's why everything superhuman we do in life will only end up in someone else's biography and people move on when we're gone. Truth is all these thoughts brings trepidation and fear and even anxiety and the More we realise this, the More we stop playing by the rules of people around us. We're not going to be the same people as much as we have the table shakers there has to be the observers as well and nobody is entitled to berate you because they don't co-own you, they don't see from your point of view, they don't feel the pain you do from the invincible scars that's refused to heal. In a nutshell we're actors wearing masks to masquerade our many weaknesses
In truth we have to work hard to beat our incapacities. Yes! But we have to understand that we can't beat inevitabilities but at the expense of losing it all. Being at the brink sometimes allows us to see that life and it's struggle is all vanity. We only understand that we need to keep it easy and steady when we're about losing everything to death, illness or permanent incarceration, the fact is the process is very tiring and the gentler we go the certain we are to reserve fuel for our life. In totality we don't to join the rat race and over and over we keep risking it all. Obviously we might be inclined to become a whole lot more but why really that eternal while our whole existence is ephemeral. We have to first appreciate the gift of life because trust me the gift of being alive free from all forms of ailment is the biggest gift ever and not the opportunity to make wealth or have wealth.
Our passion can be a gateway to our biggest regret in life because if we've got the opportunity to grow old that's when we realise we've lived chasing what will make other love and cherish us, isn't that a shame? Truth is nobody is better, we have our melting point and people who seems perfect are better devils, able to hide the demons in them. The essence of this post is that we can't afford to beat the inevitablilities that comes with life because we listen and only listen to speeches that only puts pressure but never motivates. In pleasing others we should remember we'd only last a few months in their memories and we'd be gone soon. There are inevitabilities and there are circumstances that should determine our speed and pavet in life.
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