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Sometimes in life, nothing seems logical, sensible or viable. I've taken time to study a few case study and I discovered that the human action sometimes hardly represent the original intent of their heart. This is to say that many people are living the life of second choice and this is proven in how separate or different our lives are. We  would be married to different people, have different careers and even living in different countries seperate from the one we're currently residing in. The truth is that we are so hell-bent on succeeding so much that if the contents of our desires were revealed before now others will marvel at her grand and sophisticated our impact on earth might be, that is why sometimes when we see people leaving ordinary and mundane lives it makes us wonder if they really didn't come out with something better or if the things they have come out with didn't turn out the way they really wanted it and the second thoughts would definitely be the answer you would conclude on.

The only people who hardly have dreams are the people who are born with inherited wealth because the dream which they would have had, has already presented itself in their wealth they've inherited. However  the primary desire of people is to  be free, live the good life, devoid of any problem but that's only the primary desire of a human being, the secondary desire is often shaped by the things we're exposed to, the the things we grow up seeing and the actions which are directly meted out to us. That said, these things which shapes our secondary desire dies when we have the chance to be exposed to new culture, different mindset and meeting people while growing up. We might sometimes think because we are comfortable and living the life we please we've fufilled our desires, no!  And why is this? This is because at a particular time in life we have taken a big move out of the things we want to become and even if second choices we made took us to the same position we want to be, we haven't fully fulfilled a desire irrespective of the results or the outcome.



In the case of my life, I have always tried to take a path which I think would be the best shortcut to what I want in life but there is often this huge unexplained factor that always takes me back to a particular grand plan which seems alien to me and this is often surprising and frustrating. In other words these plans seems like something that is already set in Motion and when we try to step out of the act we are sometimes taught bitter lessons in our lives that remains forever and when it seems we have no other choice will let it play out because we desperately need to make something out of the boring lives which we are living. That is a proof that we are often living second choices instead of our original heart desires and the most cases the reason why this doesn't seem obvious is because it seems we often get the same outcome or to the same place we originally desired to be but it is evident we are living second choices in life despite how the outcome might have been so good. Look at your portfolio? Do you set out to be dependent on the rise of steem to be rich? No. But if it become so then the result of the life that might have been accomplished living your first choice life is fully actualised.


In earnest, not even everyone gets to actualize their second choices or even third choices and these are the people we consider failures in life these are the people we considered failed businessman or women in the society and sometimes when we see this kind of people it always seems as if they are lazy, not hardworking or possessive of a plan to have a successful life but the truth is that there were so many forces that worked against these people that ended them up in the terrible places they've found themselves. I've once seen a great mathematics myself who ended up in a mental home because of his grotesque theories which seems so synonymous to a mental patient. Let me ask you the grand question; did the man turn out the way he wanted? No. The truth is we are not always a product of our initial plans because like it or not, there is always a huge iceberg, unseen. For the purpose of altering our course and sometimes it changes our lives forever either for the good or otherwise