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Sometimes, I think our minds are a complete detachment from who and what we truly are. This is because of how independent it functions and not succumbing to the state of our true nature. For example, there are so many things I dream of, so many desires and accomplishments I truly want to attain. But mostly, when I look at my life and the limitations that come with it, it makes me double down a little and try to give every possible cause of action a thorough thought. Now, there are so many people I'll never compare my limitations with and that's because the circumstances beyond their existence give them freer chances to live the dream that I wished I could live.
There are people I know with the maximum capacity to chase every dream, every desire, or every opportunity, but this isn't me. All my life, I've been confined to seeking stability, even if there are thoughts of possibilities in my mind I can only chase within a particular speed limit in a world where you have to fervently chase, and beat the competition before you can be assured of getting what you want. A lot of people I know are always wondering why I have so many bright ideas but I fail to pursue them, instead of settling for the ones within my reach, but it takes only the extremely conscious ones to totally understand why. My body confines me, but this isn't a side of me I like to show.
I like to create the impression that I can do the unthinkable, meanwhile, I can only go as far as my body can carry me. This virtually shows that our bodies and our state of existence carry different minds, sometimes we totally overestimate how far we can go in life and this is because we overestimate our capacity by not doing the right assessment of ourselves. Even my decisions towards crypto and financial situations always reflect on my ultimate goal of attaining stability and this is because I try to prioritize survival over every other thing. I have taken a lot of time to evaluate my life and some of the decisions I make deep down might not really be what I'd personally want.
When it comes to things like marriage, relationships, family, and money, I have discovered that I cannot make the same types of decisions that some people would make, this isn't because these decisions are bad they're good and very sensible, but they just wouldn't align with my goal of stability and sustainability. Now, there are grey areas to what is good and what's bad. Sometimes we define things based on our personalities and our knowledge through experiences, but because we cannot totally understand and relate to everyone's story in the world, most of what we deem to be right or wrong are only a confinement of our exposure and knowledge. However, in life, everyone has had to live a sacrificial life.
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I truly cannot have some of these things I want and desire and the reason is beyond the things I can control. However, this isn't to overestimate my abilities, I do feel that some of the things I want might not really want me in return. This is why we go through rejection, the things we want might not really deem us good enough, so in my life of living in limitations, I've come to understand that rejection helps us to create a better assessment of what we are, especially when we recover from the hurt and decide to try again. However, when we take a look at some of these things our minds attach possibility to, we'd realize that some of these things are virtually impossible and unthinkable, but in life, people are encouraged to tap into the positivity that they can achieve anything in life.
This is true, but this often makes us overvalue our capacities. Nevertheless, I use to tell people to measure their ability very well, some things might seem achievable but very difficult and challenging, but we know with the right capacity and perseverance, we can get it done. However, there are things we cannot do and no matter how motivated we are, it's just beyond our capacity and there is nothing to be ashamed of. This doesn't mean that I'm happy with settling for stability when I could aim for more, it's just that sometimes, our minds and spirits might be made up, but the circumstances that surround what we are, might not allow us that luxury. For people who are in my shoes and understands what it feels like to be like me, it's difficult to be in a dilemma, only thinking about the consequences or rewards of making the right or wrong choices.
I manage to cope because I realize that life isn't fair, some people are at the highest level of limitation in life and could have been better if they weren't as limited as they are, but then, comparing what we are to other people only accomplishes torture and hatred, self-pity and self-loathing. But in life, there are times we have to choose, and make a choice that might ultimately favor us but brings no happiness at all. All in all, we just have to come to love and appreciate the little things we are and have and this is because it keeps us adrift and gives us the essence to keep living. We might not find the happiness we seek in the things we need, but, let us understand that life's about making sacrifices, sometimes, when the going gets tough, survival and stability is the only thing we choose.
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