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Some people find it very excruciating to blend what they need to do into what they should enjoy doing and this makes the whole process of creating, working and making effort to be productive very mundane, too poignant and a little bit futile. Truth is most people hate their jobs not because it doesn't pay but because they're alienating these jobs thereby wearing things like different personalities and dropping it off immediately they leave their working place and as a result of these they often need to change into different people to suit the different environment which they've created needlessly by themselves. For example they'll often need to change mood in other no to transfer aggression on their children and they'll also wear the stern and weary look to the work in other to blend to a very uncomfortable scenarios at works therefore making them having to switch every them they change location simply because they're not really finding a neutral ground in other to maintain a constant personality of happiness, zeal and vigour when they're at work, at church, at home or at social gatherings.

Sometimes people don't want to understand why we're so complicated, different in relativity to separate situations, they just feel we're weird and this becomes an attribute they find synonymous to us. Sometimes we have the Mentality that work should be all seriousness and no sort of fun. Infact I've seen a medical doctor who's banned all the nurses in his hospital from smiling when they're at work and I wonder why someone would psychologically dampen the spirit of someone who's already under the pressure to save lives at all cost and it dawned on me that Sometimes we feel we need to separate our normal cheerful self because we feel some mood aren't in relativity to some life situations, when we keep creating these moods, blockade and lifestyles deemed necessary for some situation aren't we creating a cage for the freedom that's our inalienable feature as people?


In truth sometimes people don't feel like themselves and it brings this strangeness to them, it's like they're spectators to the drama being performed by their alter ego and it makes them feel unwhole and unable to cope with the separate entities they have to embody. If being alive has taught me one thing, it's taught me that we work too hard to be perfect instead of working to be whole. When we embody we we produce it makes us love the things we are, we become proud of our stories regardless of how it seems. We'd feel comfortable to tell people about our stories rather being afraid. In truth, being whole entails us finding a balance, a conclusion and a common grounds between our animalistic thoughts, desires and wishes and our More sane, Plausible and realistic thoughts. 


We can not always turn out to be the beast and the angel we embody especially when we haven't found a method of changing from the big bad wolf to the man in robes and cassock and since the whole process is often herculean, one day we might just exhibit or exchange our attributes with the wrong situations and then we'd let lose the demons inside of us and that's why we need to find a flavour or variant because apart from a sane mentality it's essential that we're the rightly on track acknowledging every aspect of us and reckoning instead of being in denial. In truth we're us, flaws, physically challenged, mentally compromised and well unsteady. Sometimes we appear calm and collected only of we've found a neutral ground for our incapacities therefore making us a complete embodiment of our produce, our content and our essence.