Hmmm my bones get weak whenever I get across your content but you state facts not fictions.
There are some life challenges that are chronic same way there are chronic illnesses but not accepting reality is just keeping oneself a few steps to the grave, but facing reality makes it possible to acquire needed strength and wisdom to manage the situation.
Unfortunately some have decided to deceive themselves and they get hurt at the long run some even lose their lives.

Ah, it is not good to dwell on life problems but the reality to my experience is not to dwell on it too much, but knowing yourself will helps you grow cos that's your own life, you can not just commot eyes as if everything is fine.
You must always admit who you are, you don't need to fake your lifestyle cos it won't end you somewhere good or better.
This life is full of consistent difficult and challenges " it's when you face one thing another will pop up"
The conclusion is be yourself, understand who you are and the best of you to deal with life difficulties and challenges.

Am just always amaze by your write up, and I can't but must comment to it.

I must say thank you, cos I have really learn from your write ups. I wish to still learn more from you.

Is good to work harder but time is money 💵 good time is good not bad time  I always leaning about your post al the time 

i agree with you, they used to tell me "don't think at the problem, go out, have a walk", but it's not like your body will self fix or your pains and difficulties fades away if you walk out, and there was no way to make them understand

> I strongly believe that good times produce weak and carefree people, whereas bad times produce stronger and more determined people

that's true too, our grandparents were stronger, had more sacrifice spirit, helped each other

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I fine myself pushing things off until the deadline gets closer. I should change that, and I agree that its best to resolve things earlier if you can. Money is such a pressing issue for everyone. I am pretty sure most people have had that feeling and it can be rough when you need to pay those bills.

We often say "All is well" when in reality, all isn't well. We only say it while hoping that things will improve, lines will fall into places and all ends will meet. Unfortunately, these are just the more you look, the less you see. That is life, and anyone who refuses to recognize it now might do so later, maybe when it's already late. This also applies to  someone who refuses to acknowledge that they have a problem and would go about claiming all is well, without looking for a solution, the problem would still be staring them in the face, until when they're ready to tackle it. 

Life is tough and will be tougher as one grows due to increasing responsibilities. No one would tell you this, only life will. 
What to do, be ready to fight it out if you want to live. Feigning ignorance about this would only end in regrets.

>recognizing that you have a problem and acknowledging that you need to address it is a step in the right direction.


This is so true! Sometimes we choose not to accept a particular problem and keep overlooking it for any reason atall...but then, it doesn't mean that the problem will go away because we choose not to accept it..it will still be there, possibly birthing other problems and discomfort. 

For instance , it's been over one week plus I noticed a health challenge in my body system, so uncomfortable   but I choose to ignore it. Every effort my husband and friends has made to ensure I see a doctor yield no result until this afternoon, I told myself the truth,by  accepting  the reality and plan to see a doctor tommorw morning. 

Life indeed punishes ignorant. We must be on the know, and face the reality .  And the earlier , the better 


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I once told my friend that no one in a good state of mind stands in front of a mirror and says, “I’m not sick, I’m fine and happy.” 😂
I couldn’t solve her problems, but over time, she began to see them as a normal part of life. She then stopped posting things like “Don’t worry about me, I’m fine” on her WhatsApp status.

Living in denial can sometimes lead to depression, not because the problems go away, but because they quietly pile up beneath the surface.

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If you are ignorant, life will deal with you harshly. It's one thing to know your problem exist and another to take measures to solving it. Ignoring our problems won't make them leave, we have to take actions and stop living in the illusion that if we don't do anything, they won't affect us. Even the Bible says that people perish because of lack of knowledge. 

This is it, really. Trying to feign ignorance with the unchanging aspects of life almost always backfires back at us, sometimes a ten fold. I do appreciate taking a break every now and then, as in going on a side quest in a video game. But my mind is always on the main quests, thinking out ways to solve my problems in the here and now. I love the idea of viewing the mind as a problem solving tool and stress testing it to make the mind stronger or more resilient. It's very accurate from personal experience :) 

This really makes a lot of sense my bro. Life can be hard sometimes, and acting like everything is okay doesn’t change anything. Sometimes, facing the real truth is the first step to getting better in this life.

Life's problems don't just vanish, especially money issues.  Money is one of those evils that man has created to solve another problem, did it make things better? Not really... But on occasion taking a break from focusing on the problems is necessary, but in the end you have to find a solution. 

I agree that easy times make people lazy, and when the hard time come they struggle immensely.  When your health is good  you take it for granted, until it's not and the struggle begins.

As I've said over and over, life isn't fair, never has been, never will be. All we can do is make the best of our situation, plan and prepare, and hope for the best. Just keep in mind that no one gets out alive, and some problems don't away. Great post!

Life really doesn’t slow down, especially when you’re the one everyone depends on. I get the part about being up 14 hours a day, It’s exhausting, and yet the bills keep coming like they don’t care.

What you said about facing reality instead of running from it really stuck with me. I have also made the mistake of ignoring things, hoping they’d fix themselves, but life doesn’t work that way. It’s harsh, and like you said, it punishes ignorance.

I admire how you’re not sugarcoating anything. There’s strength in being this honest about your struggles. And I agree, sometimes you just need to sit with the pain, understand it, and then decide your next move.