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Over the past few weeks I've taken time to analyse my life because I've been awakened to a few realities staring me in the face. sometimes we build dreams based on the present circumstances we find ourselves but we fail to understand that the future isn't set yet. **Until it happens, it might never happen** one thing I have found myself being guilty of is that  I've ignored the fact that most of the circumstances surrounding my life requires me to need a *PLAN B* or an alternative plan and after taking the decisions I've taken in the past few months I have regretted not doing things differently even when it's obvious that there's a second thought that's questioned the motive behind every decisions I've made lately. In truth there is always a downside to every decision or to every choice that is made possible for us to choose from and **most of the times we only tend to choose the choice with the lesser disadvantages**


Some of the reasons why we do not want to fail as people is because the path we are taking must have been warned against by let's say somebody close to us, or somebody who cares about us, or the fact that we must have invested a whole lot of time, commitment and money into something and we fear that it might amount to nothing. However, what drives people the most is the fact that they want to prove others who's got a conflicting perception about them wrong and one of the biggest mistakes of being motivated by this is that it makes you make certain culpable mistakes because you are driven by things that are not really rational going forward and sometimes I look at my life and ask myself where I've gotten lost in my quest of choosing the right motivation.


The only way we can however become articulate and making top-notch decisions is if we can see the future and this is currently not possible and so we have to accept the fact that the basis through which we judge what is right and what is wrong is limited by the premonitions and predictions that we can make as people and it sucks when we are hurt by the things or the complexities that we can't see. Sometimes it's the things we undeliverately ignore that comes back to hurt us, infact we often tend to be very careful, but we're humans and we can can't go beyond a particular reach no matter how motivated we are. It hurts us that we can't be superhumans, it hurts us that we have unlimited desires inside a limited body and all this proves that at the end of the day our Mistakes might be oversight on our part and we should accept it. 



Without a doubt it is often good for us to take time and look back at every decision and every action we have taken in order to see if it really reflects the fact that our goals is to move forward if not, it helps us to be regulated as well as rational. What is really important is that we've made attempts and that should be the last resort. After carefully making these evaluations of my life in 6 months and seeing all the mistakes I have made, I have however actually learnt from them but that doesn't mean I might not repeat these mistakes and why is this?  *that is because humans are not hundred percent rational there's always accommodation for sentimentality* and that is why our biggest strength can also be considered our biggest weakness.


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> **Interested in some more of my works?**


### [The Big Issues With "Faking It Till You Make It"](https://steemit.com/dtube/@josediccus/a0uu3bxmouk)




### [Consumerism And Spending From A Strange Point of View](https://steemit.com/hive-167922/@josediccus/consumerism-and-spending-from-a-strange-point-of-view)




### [Your Experience Is "Money", Feeling Free To Sell?](https://steemit.com/hive-167922/@josediccus/your-experience-is-money-feeling-free-to-sell)





### [The Fruitfulness Of Taking Actions Immediately We Make Decisions](https://steemit.com/dtube/@josediccus/7q04hcmicmd)



### [Waking Up "Undead". (An Original Poetry)](https://steemit.com/hive-174578/@josediccus/waking-up-undead-an-original-poetry)


### [Understanding Obtainability And Unobtainability In Our External and Internal Societies](https://steemit.com/psychology/@josediccus/understanding-obtainability-and-unobtainability-in-our-external-and-internal-societies)



### [The Dilemma That Comes With Condoling The Act Of Betrayal](https://steemit.com/dtube/@josediccus/w0r3ajocegm)





### [Life Goals 101: Building Character In Place Of Noteriety/Popularity](https://steemit.com/dtube/@josediccus/1phgeyfbu6a)



### [Erling Haaland : Making The Case For Manchester United's Missed Opportunity](https://steemit.com/sportstalk/@josediccus/erling-haaland-making-the-case-for-manchester-united-s-missed-opportunity)









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**My name is @Josediccus, a young Nigerian student who is a Dtuber, 📷 Psychologist, Poet And Sports Writer/Analyst. I'm using my contents as a process to create shared meaning as well as create expressions through which people on/off steem can relate. I believe content is a process to be enjoyed and relished and I'm up for any collaborations in my field stated above. Cheers**


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