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In the course of our existence as people we often diverge, derailing off our major course  by abandoning the things we hoped to achieve along the way in the quest to take on something more easier or more surmountable;   **Before undertaking life's adventures or quest people often overestimate their abilities to cope, persevere or hold on.**  and one of the main reason why they often abandon their challenge, their purpose or battles in order to choose a more lesser quest is because of the underlying fear factor of failure.  When however it seems they can't achieve their earlier goals, they develop a new goal which is taking on an entirely different adventures to prevent their journey from being utter failures or wastage of their time, resources or every other thing they've put in. 


Truth is, people often cultivate this feeling of  *incapability or inferiority*  when they feel they cannot or they couldn't achieve their original purposes  *it makes them feel like lesser people with lesser qualities imbued into them to become generally successful men and women.*  Also in the face of adversity there is always a time when people will now begin to tap into biggest weaknesses blaming it as a reason for their continuous failure and what do I mean by this?  **Irrespective of how strong our resolve is to hold on for so long it usually comes to a stage in life where we encounter numerous failures**  and of course we would need something to blame for these failures. 

Because of this need to apportion blames, we look for where our life doesn't seem perfect to lay these blames and it brings a certain feeling of relief.   *In most times this often comes when people fail in their attempt with other people;*  A man for example generally begins to question his looks, his accent, his lifestyle or his abilities when he's made so many attempt to allure the feeling of love from a woman to himself and successfully fails in numerous occasions. Believe me, when there is a sense of this feeling one thing people fail to understand is that they are not the only ones in this shoes. **They're however blind to this simply because they put the concentration on themselves** and when there is a total concentration on oneself when failure steps in, it makes people seek for answers as to why they have failed and like I said earlier they see this in their biggest weaknesses. 


**In conclusion, everybody has their biggest weaknesses but this doesn't mean that these weaknesses can be blamed for each and every failed attempt to become successful at various attempts in life.** It's painful to experience failure in it's maximum heights but failures isn't an excuse for stagnation.  *People often feel lesser of themselves because of failure,*  but they fail to understand that failure is an unforeseen circumstances that was adequately prepared for within one's best of abilities. While so many are designed for bigger things others might be definitely not and this doesn't mean a gulf in class or intellectual difference.  **Most of the reason why people experience numerous failures is just because they are being exposed to the wrong opportunities, the wrong people and the wrong adventures** and this may just be a coincidence which they decide not to understand or see.





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