今天听书《红楼梦》里的刘姥姥。以前她给我的形象是又老又土又能吃但又搞笑的打秋风的乡下妇人。今天再读刘姥姥后才明白,刘姥姥的一言一行是一整套修身、治家和处事的人生智慧。 首先面对家里人失业时。她先是安抚接着是训导最后还是解决问题,给出希望。家人之间遇到问题,光指责并非明智之举,一味打压泄气更是要不得。最好的方式就是像刘姥姥这样,指出问题并帮助解决问题。 不骄纵不放弃。这是历经人世沧桑的刘姥姥给我们的智慧。 她在明显的阶层差距面前,打秋风是羞于启齿的事情。她清醒的知道这是一场永不对等的把酒言欢。于是她不惜黑化自己,让自己成为取笑的对象。自黑是认清事实了解差距后的豁达,是绝处逢生的幽默,这正是大智慧。相比于改变家庭困厄现状和让家人吃饱肚子来说,自黑一把无伤大雅。 自黑不是堕落,而是一种策略,是一种大智若愚。 刘姥姥宽厚善良,有恩必报。贾府被抄家后,别人躲之不及,而刘姥姥还上门来。不料这次上门碰巧遇到了巧姐被舅舅设计变卖的情况,刘姥姥果断出手相助。一个农妇搭救一个侯门小姐谈何容易?最后巧姐躲过一劫。但行好事,莫问前程。刘姥姥身体力行告诉我们,宽厚善良,懂得感恩是传家之本,兴家之要。嬉笑怒骂中,刘姥姥轻轻松松为我们上了一堂课。 少年曾看不起刘姥姥,看起时已是中年人。
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lucknie | 0 | 115,797,250 | 88% | ||
dumping | 0 | 86,649,685 | 88% | ||
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htliao | 0 | 2,936,197,574 | 20% | ||
aaronli | 0 | 32,361,873,307 | 30% | ||
shenchensucc | 0 | 1,136,819,720 | 30% | ||
mrpointp | 0 | 90,726,732,960 | 30% | ||
cn-reader | 0 | 14,936,277,982 | 50% | ||
mrspointm | 0 | 85,064,708,266 | 30% | ||
acactus1013 | 0 | 6,188,169,933 | 30% | ||
mawit07 | 0 | 110,757,705,167 | 15% | ||
dancingapple | 0 | 3,471,062,073 | 20% | ||
metten | 0 | 109,840,851 | 88% | ||
lindalex | 0 | 580,635,456 | 50% | ||
winniex | 0 | 72,983,091,890 | 30% | ||
cn-book | 0 | 340,131,667 | 88% | ||
new-world-steem | 0 | 49,656,895,193 | 23% | ||
windowglass | 0 | 166,837,783,959 | 30% | ||
cnbuddy | 0 | 391,583,187,858 | 100% | ||
jacktan | 0 | 3,020,571,381 | 50% | ||
cn-movie | 0 | 158,712,207 | 88% | ||
angelina6688 | 0 | 16,374,313,959 | 30% | ||
vivia | 0 | 619,547,371 | 88% | ||
tommy-gun | 0 | 14,881,454,326 | 55% | ||
auleo | 0 | 11,236,593,945 | 30% | ||
sneakyninja | 0 | 884,383,649 | 1.59% | ||
cheva | 0 | 49,568,515,406 | 30% | ||
jim888 | 0 | 739,462,564,223 | 22% | ||
fun2learn | 0 | 468,910,919 | 30% | ||
suhunter | 0 | 961,902,227 | 50% | ||
xiaoli | 0 | 388,239,271 | 88% | ||
yumisee | 0 | 1,636,035,995 | 100% | ||
wilhb81 | 0 | 96,481,264,366 | 30% | ||
cherryng | 0 | 16,406,978,702 | 30% | ||
nostalgic1212 | 0 | 74,785,371,823 | 30% | ||
joelai | 0 | 16,094,901,542 | 80% | ||
dailypro | 0 | 2,220,795,002 | 50% | ||
aellly | 0 | 5,635,719,683 | 30% | ||
liewsc | 0 | 3,043,330,903 | 50% | ||
tanzy | 0 | 1,418,126,201 | 50% | ||
janicechua | 0 | 14,814,029,496 | 20% | ||
andrewma | 0 | 13,953,495,155 | 50% | ||
tanlikming | 0 | 16,592,228,953 | 100% | ||
cn-malaysia | 0 | 4,207,000,712 | 100% | ||
abcallen | 0 | 16,830,135 | 50% | ||
coder-bts | 0 | 7,393,604,167 | 50% | ||
emsonic | 0 | 1,220,753,298 | 30% | ||
thedailysneak | 0 | 1,202,371,277 | 1.59% | ||
shine.wong | 0 | 4,260,822,395 | 100% | ||
sunai | 0 | 6,778,004,376 | 30% | ||
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changxiu | 0 | 5,053,333,843 | 50% | ||
annepink | 0 | 135,159,386,696 | 38.8% | ||
cherryzz | 0 | 40,355,362,906 | 30% | ||
steemcryptosicko | 0 | 104,384,596,728 | 10% | ||
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steem-on-2020 | 0 | 17,857,662,376 | 29% | ||
wherein | 0 | 3,157,820,759 | 5% | ||
cnstm | 0 | 6,361,190,996 | 5% | ||
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tina3721 | 0 | 4,865,573,237 | 50% | ||
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dailyke20 | 0 | 90,757,225,286 | 30% | ||
hybrintelligence | 0 | 1,606,197,125 | 30% | ||
ying82 | 0 | 5,399,031,547 | 30% | ||
atyh | 0 | 14,529,896,709 | 30% | ||
sbi-tokens | 0 | 684,869,102 | 3.18% | ||
andylein | 0 | 80,602,340,259 | 80% | ||
icon123456 | 0 | 9,687,891,353 | 30% | ||
cnbuddy-reward | 0 | 4,268,873,690 | 100% | ||
real3earch | 0 | 1,844,433,146 | 100% | ||
starnote | 0 | 282,920,810 | 88% | ||
gloriaolar | 0 | 14,754,519,017 | 9% | ||
moochain.net | 0 | 285,052,417 | 88% | ||
lovequeen | 0 | 37,767,216,015 | 30% | ||
littleksroad | 0 | 907,448,804 | 30% | ||
evahe | 0 | 52,324,130,868 | 30% | ||
badstrategylive | 0 | 59,353,788,837 | 30% | ||
hivevote | 0 | 1,087,498,578 | 30% | ||
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zhangyan-123 | 0 | 9,849,482,401 | 30% | ||
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circlebubble | 0 | 6,379,660,031 | 30% | ||
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