I have had a hard day to day, I haven't done much other than deal with my oldest daughter Jessica.  Bless her she tries her best but with her having ADHD - Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder  and Aspergers sometimes organising plans can be very difficult and stressful.

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As you know she is 7 months pregnant, her baby is due in August. Today she decided to organise what's happening on Christmas day, sent say to her is 8 months away or she will get muddled up and angry. 

She lives just over an hour away from me, luckly for her her Larne parents are just around the corner so visiting for then is very easy also planning dates are easy as there's no travel plans to sort out. 

We have took turns for Christmas, one year her and her partner will come to ours for lunch then Boxing day they will go to his parents house then change the next year.  This year she will have a 4 month baby to bring with her so with it being her partners parents turn she still wanted us to be there on the baby's first Christmas,  she wants lots of photos for memories.  Now I have no problem with that apart from we have got to travel am hour there and a hour back n on Christmas day plus she wanted us to have our Christmas Dinner at her in laws. That would have caused so many problems as there house isn't that big plus they have loads of family and we have 3 dogs to look after. 

We have now agreed after spending hours trying to sort this out and keep my Daughter calm,we wouldn't dare change these plans or she would have a fit, she will have the details noted down somewhere so as not to forget. She has to know what's happening,  we can't be late or she will panic, everything is done precisely, she can't handle the slightest change.  I just hope I don't have a Fibromylagia flare up on Christmas morning. I hate planning dates.

Me and hubby are going to have to be up and ready for 9pm on Christmas morning then travel to my daughters spend sometime with my granddaughter, have photos taken then we are allowed to leave to travel another hour whilst my father goes to her in laws for lunch.  Now usually we would get them to ourselfs on boxing day but she doesn't want to travel with the baby. So me and hubby are slightly disappointed but have to go along with the plans we have made. 

I want even thinking about Christmas, There are a few birthdays to get over plus the big day when baby arrives.  

I had to deal with it as hubby was playing Golf, I had to keep her calm with suggestions then tell hubby when he got home.  He hates driving abs usually loves to spend the day preparing dinner and having a drink. Our Christmas will have to start around lunch time when we get home. 

At least now shes calmed down, she has done really well copjng with her problems but now and again it pops its nasty head and we all have to focus on Jessica. Thankfully her younger sister doesn't have any problems.  She did have some learned behaviour when she was younger, now she is older she can see what's right and wrong.  

Anyway Thank you for visiting.  💟💟

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