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One of the most difficult things in life is to accept change. There is nothing wrong with taking action and changing what you can.


The reality, though, In life, you can't change everything.
There are some changes you simply have to learn to accept. And while transitioning to something new can be challenging, It's important to be still happy in life despite any negative changes that can occur.


Some of the benefits to accepting change are;
- Being more compassionate
- Greater Appreciation
- Ability to embrace more change
- Less Worry & Stress
- A positive attitude
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# Let go of the past #
Everyone has some baggage from the past, and the unfortunate thing is that many of us don’t like to let go. The longer you hold on to baggage, the heavier it becomes. People carry around mental reminders of the past losses and mistakes not realizing just how much of a negative impact this has on their lives. It’s important to understand that what happened already happened and the present/future is more important. 
You can't change anything from the past. So learn from your mistakes then move on.
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# Equip yourself with coping skills #


Things aren't always going to go your way, NO matter how much you prepare or plan for it. It's going to happen on a regular basis. Whether it’s failure of epic proportions or a severe loss that you aren’t prepared to deal with, these events sometimes go beyond your ability to cope with. Part of learning how to accept change in life is equipping yourself with coping skills. Such skills allow you to keep your emotions in check so that you can make conscious decisions even when hit by the worst situations. 
Your decisions after something big happens, Has a massive impact on your ability to escape from the problems that have arisen. Coping skills will help you get over that initial shock as quickly as possible so you can solve your problems head on, To get yourself back on the right track.


# Learn to expect less #


It is human nature for people to always to want more out of life. 
While this isn’t always a bad thing, it gets in the way of living a productive life. If something doesn’t meet our expectations, we tend to get angry and anxious. When expectations are unrealistic, life always seems ruthless, unfair and purposeless. To avoid this, you may want to tone down your expectations, and focus on what you want to create rather than what you expect. When things aren't as good as you expect them to be, Look at what went wrong, and adjust how you are doing things.
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# Set new goals #


It’s easy to feel like you have nowhere to turn whenever you run into a setback or failure. Life is bound to present us with challenges, and when that happens, the best we can do is change our trajectory. A time comes when letting go of what we want and setting new goals or using different approaches works best. Sometimes we need to stick to what we are good at, At that moment. Then practice, and build ourselves up on the sidelines so we can effectively make the changes we want.


# Just never give up! If a lot of adverse changes happen, There will be good ones that will happen later. #
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