Dear LOH, I appreciate your kind welcome to our new competition. 🙂

Let me first share with you my thoughts on weddings in general and how I envision my own wedding.

I don't see getting married as a necessary stage in my life. I don't care if my relatives will drink to celebrate or if there will be a stamp in the passport. The offer was what I considered to be most significant. 

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Consequently, I would never wed while flying! Without it, you can raise a child who will be a good parent and who won't need a marriage license from you. My suggestion satisfies the requirement that "the time has come" 






I've already stated that I have a very hazy understanding of what a wedding entails. But if with what and to start over, that is.

I believe the guest list should come first. For my part, I knew who would be coming right away: 22 people, including myself and two young children. These are the people I must personally invite, but only the ones who are closest to me; no coworkers, distant relatives, etc. Another benefit of not attending weddings is that no one ought to be called back out of politeness in response. 


Another nuance: Since Andy and I have known two of my girlfriends personally for a long time and they have been together for more than five years, I will invite them. 






Another crucial point is that half of our visitors are from outside my hometown, necessitating travel arrangements for them. The economy option is no longer available because there is nowhere to put visitors at home. It is necessary to provide lodging for more than one night because some people might travel from another country.


The truth is that, in my opinion, nothing with the wedding is hurried. Booking everything in advance can help you save money and anxiety, and you don't even need to know anything about weddings to understand this. Additionally, neither my family nor I have any money left over to pay for the wedding. 

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How about the location of the wedding? I think a wedding should only happen once in life, or at the very least, this should be the goal. Consequently, it must be a dream wedding or it won't happen at all! I think of it as a time when we show our love to all of our loved ones. 


Since I don't believe anyone can unwind quickly, the ideal wedding would take place outside of the city, in a large cottage or a number of smaller ones, in the open air (I don't like tents because they are pricey and uncomfortable). 

The wedding should last two days—more is better (in an ideal world, we should have already built our dream home and tied the knot there, but this is not at all realistic). a minimum number of non-participants directly involved in the event's management. 

By the way, remember that stress is your worst enemy when getting ready for marriage, my dear brides. Do not ever worry about anything. You follow a well-planned schedule, so everything will be done before the wedding; all that is left to do is wait.
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