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## <center>Chasing other's rule</center>

Somebody came and asked me:  "**why does my blog always get just a few viewers?". "I don't want to write anymore because no one cares about it, no one comes to my blog, no one reads it**".

I partly agreed with him. I, partly, can understand that feeling. 
It is so disappointed, so bored, so lonely. Do you agree with me that the comments and the feedback for each post mean very much?

I still remember that I wrote a post talking about it, talking about my feeling when I saw some comments on my blogs. It actually made my day. Those comments are the big spiritual encouragement to me. 
So, I know that it is the same with someone else.

Then, I spend time on thinking about the topic for my post. I have changed lots of kinds of the topic with the intention of drawing attention from others. As a result, I got stuck in another hole. I was chasing other's works, I was imitating other's ideas. Those were not mine. Thus, I was not confident in my posts. I felt awkward to express my writing. Like I was wearing other's clothes. Those didn't fit me. 

## <center>Be Yourself</center>

There is a friend tell me that "***You should write what you love, what is yours. That expresses yourself most. That makes you feel confident and happy. Your happiness would draw the attention***".

Those words made sense to me. I gradually write what I could be self-assured. When writing what is similar to me, it appears that I am not writing, indeed I am telling my story, I am giving the audience my interesting thing. That blog is mine. That writing illustrated me. That is totally different from others. So, it will make my writing unique and helpful in some ways. 

All in all, what I want to say is that "***Just be yourself, be what you are. Just be confident, no need to run after anyone else. The long run would defeat you***!

## <center>Engage with the Community</center>

If you want more people to come to your blog, you first must enter their houses to make friends. No one could know you if you don't give them a chance to know each other. You must introduce yourself, show your desire to be acquainted with them.

So, instead of sitting in your house and wait for others, why don't you come to other blog and just say "hi"? You would get back the miracle things. Trust me! :)