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渐渐被岁月摧残的性格
曾几何时,我是一个很注重友情的人。曾经在初初出来的时候,每晚我都可以花整晚的时间我不同的朋友聊聊近况,互相关心。但随着岁月的流逝,开始对身边的事物渐渐提不起劲。特别是对身边的朋友,并没有了以前那种热情。人开始渐渐颓废。每天工作后拖着疲累的身子回家。回到家后,有种什么都不想做只想好好在床上滚来滚去的感觉。

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以前还是小伙子的时间,会打游戏,看动漫,做运动或约朋友去吃饭之类,但现在却愈来愈没有干劲。虽然一直告诉自己不可以这样下去。但似乎没办法,我还是开始有一种愈来愈不受到外界刺激所影响。

以前社会学读过一篇文章,就是说这个情况。人会渐渐对相同的刺激免疫,最终会毫无反应,成为像机械人似的东西。打个比方说,初到大城市的农民,可能一开始很受五光十色吸引,觉得每样东西都很新奇。但习惯了后,就不会再有这种感觉,渐渐会觉得这些东西很平凡,也再做不到提起他们的兴趣。

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老实说,我很不希望这种事,但无奈这就是人的天性。长做同样的东西,会渐渐没有兴趣也没有干劲。以往我觉得维持友谊很不错,但现在却愈来愈觉得是麻烦。每天上班已经累,还要花时间去关心人,别人也可能会累,不会怎样回覆。所以大家也渐渐疏远。一不留神,就会少了几个朋友。这是我很不想的事。

有时候,有人常说不想长大,有时我也有这种感觉。觉得自己再不是自己,有种愈来愈陌生的感觉。以为那个温柔亲切的人,现在却不知去了哪里。有时真的觉得很可怕。但人可总不能不成长。

所以我决定把这种心情纪录下来,纪录在区块链上,让自己不要忘记原来的自己,继续做回以往那个自己。

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由今天起,我决定不会再怕麻烦而什么都不做,会努力去继续关心朋友,珍惜那些得来不易的友谊!

人虽然有天性,有随时间改变性格的特性,但同时人也有自己的意志和思想可以改变自己的生性和维持自己的性格和初衷。只要意志力足够,其实很多事实都可以办到!

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@acactus1013 ·
我也觉得成家后琐事太多,和朋友联系越来越少了
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@linuslee0216 ·
总觉得这样下去是不行的。
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@acactus1013 ·
是的,人生如果没了朋友多没意思啊
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@angelina6688 ·
我觉得 正因为我们会渐渐对很多事物提不起劲,就更应该去发现新的事物呢
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@linuslee0216 ·
哈哈,谢谢!
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@cnbuddy ·
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@cnbuddy ·
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@goodboyphilip ·
成長必經之路。
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@linuslee0216 ·
的确呢
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@htliao ·
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大概每個出來工作的人都會有類似的體會吧。
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@linuslee0216 ·
嗯,的确呢
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@iqbaallsm ·
I love your post, you are great to make a post, I just post my introduction in this great world, hope you see it and love it thanks.
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@linuslee0216 ·
Haha, thanks!
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@nazarwills ·
Very good post @linuslee2016
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@linuslee0216 ·
Thanks!
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@screenname ·
Re: 渐渐被岁月摧残的性格
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@tvb · (edited)
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我觉得,真正的友谊是不需要维系的。

比如我,我去年底买房子的时候,首付还差一些。

我大学同学居然直接主动向我说,要借钱给我。

然后,我打电话给我初中同学,她直接同意了。初中同学期基本上很少联系的。

我每次和我这个初中同学聊天的,无论是在线,或见面,我都觉得好像我们昨天还在一起一样,就有这种感觉。

所以我觉得也不用太克意,我平时就不喜欢和朋友走动,但如果朋友有困难的时候,只要我知道,我一定尽力帮助。

所以你觉得麻烦就不要太勉强自己了,如果慢慢生疏的朋友,说明这些朋友,只是你人生的过客。只有那些经得起时间和距离考验的,才是真正的朋友!
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@linuslee0216 ·
也是呢,的确太勉强也不是好事。
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@lydiachan · (edited)
就跟我前幾天寫的文章一樣,真正的朋友,放心裡就好,他如果在乎你,肯定也把你放在心裡的!!  :)
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@valorgaming ·
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