春天 by liumei

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hive-105017 · @liumei · Apr 14

$4.51

春天

上周末是个好天气，闺女周六放学早，天还亮着，回家时带了几支花枝，一头扑进屋里开始搞创作。

我过去看时，这画面太美了，闺女不但把春天带回家里，还把自己也融入进去，变成一道风景。

看她专心的画画，我拿手机把她录下来，这段影片还成了我的YouTube的首支影片🥳。


说起孩子，对我的影响还是很大的，我的改变的动力全部源自于她，我想让她好好的，不要走我的老路，我想让她成为幸福的孩子。

想我小时候，我妈总说我怎么就不想别人家孩子那样好，我就说她怎么不像别人家妈妈那么好。

现在才知道，常言说的“孩子就是父母的翻版”是什么意思了，就是一种轮回。我要斩断它！

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmUSg3AoadKDFu9vqVeaXr7SFjy5Vufp65M3eiXTB1f2bi/img_7256.jpg)

昨天下午，一个女孩来买吃的，让我发微信给她妈妈，妈妈会给我钱。女孩刚走不久，这妈妈就来店里了，还气势汹汹的说着孩子的不是，不好好在家待着，总往小同学家里跑，去了也不学习，说今天班都没加，就是为了回来揍她一顿的。

我锅里正炖着酸菜，看这情形，我得花点大力气才能说得住她。
我说：你不要揍她，也不要吼她，孩子是要好好爱的，要好好对她。不能眼里只有分数，现在不是我们那个考个好分数、上个好大学就能有好工作的年代了，遍地是送外卖的大学小哥。
我嗓子还没好利索，用好多气音的哑嗓子告诉她：我闺女的同桌和前后座都在划胳膊，初中的同学也有划的，小学还有一个跳楼的，她班还有一个坐到窗台上没跳下去的……

经过了解，这妈妈每天要加班到十一二点才回家，姐姐出嫁了，爸爸去世了。
这是个多孤单的孩子啊，背地里有没有也在划胳膊呢😖。

我给这个妈妈推荐了我常听的几个直播间，让她多学习。看这妈妈的态度，这回是不会回去打孩子了，但要她学习挺困难，并不是每个人都有这个意愿度的。

我这慈母心又泛滥了一回，我跟孩爸说，又救了一个孩子，谁知道呢🧐。

https://youtu.be/UVkhFXvmWQQ?si=On19-VJYYhPNKH6j

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@carolin77 · Apr 14

家长不必给孩子太多的禁锢，以后走什么样的路让他自己选，最多给点建议，以及引导。
我很佛系的，昨天还跟他说，你如果有更好的出路，我可以帮你办休学，他想了想，说我还是先读书吧，哈哈哈

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@liumei · Apr 14

哈哈，你这妈妈更开明🤩

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@celeste413 · Apr 14

你好厉害 小时候就懂反PUA了！👍

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@liumei · Apr 14

$0.02

那也没有用，还是被压制的死死的🤪

👍 dustbunny, celeste413

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@celeste413 · Apr 14

我妈也对我有一些影响 没办法 身为子女，多多少少都会被父母影响~

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@jychbetter · Apr 14

关注你的YouTube了

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@liumei · Apr 15

谢谢友哥，可能是我的第一个粉丝哦😘😘😘

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@love5200 · Apr 16

你是在做好事，为你的爱心劝解点赞。

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@marygong77777 · Apr 14

这孩子真可伶😃😃😃

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@liumei · Apr 14

是的，失去爸爸的创伤、又不被理解，孤独的孩子🥺

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@trina77 · Apr 15

梅姐真是个有爱的知心姐姐，孩子遇到了你真是她的福气

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@liumei · Apr 15

可惜功力不够，努力深造一下💪

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