<div class="text-justify">Hello dear friends (a) of the super family Steemit, next I want to share with you a topic to reflect. "DEATH A THEME TABÚ!"

<br/>A taboo is all action, behavior, expression that is forbidden to us. In this sense we can consider death as a taboo subject and in our current society we are even forbidden to talk about it when we are reunited with family or friends and when we do, we hear expressions like these:
Do not talk about that which is turkey!, Sape gato,! María Purísima!

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Today I want to bring this topic to my colleague steemit, in order to reflect on the death.

Let us understand that death is part of the culmination of the life cycle through which all living beings will pass.

Although, if at this moment they ask us who wants to die ?, the surest thing is that no one would answer yoooo !; but unfortunately we are surprised by the death of a relative, a friend, an acquaintance, which generates inexplicable feelings.

The death of a loved one causes us a shock, which can cause nausea, difficulty breathing, it is hard to believe, we refuse to think it is true, a feeling of sadness, anguish, desire to cry to say it easier. It can happen that the grief takes him to make decisive decisions, to the point of wanting to take his own life when the person has been very dependent on the deceased.

Some people get angry with God, they wonder: Why did you take my loved one away? They blame themselves or blame others, who could help, why did not I do this or that?

Some, very few cases understand that death is a relief for the families of people who have long suffered from a disease, that person will no longer suffer, nor his family to see him in this state.

In conclusion, we can say that if death is the safest thing we have, that in a matter of seconds our lives are gone, then I want to invite you to reflect on this.

A chaplain of a church said "all human beings have determined the date we are born and the date we are going to die, the cause or the instrument can be any, as far as the history of the book of our lives is written by us" ; that is, it is up to us to be happy or not.

Of all that behavior will depend on how we understand the stage of death, and how others understand our death.

**Words to reflect on death:**
• We were born naked and we died naked, nothing that we have managed to provide us with comfort (houses, apartments, cars, cell phones, jewelry, clothes, footwear, purses, among many others), we do not take it to the urn, that remains, who keeps them, we can no longer answer, we are in an eternal dream, our body will become earth.

• Let us tell our loved ones when they are alive: how much we love them, how much we need them, listen to them, embrace them, kiss them, caress them, give them help when necessary.

• Let's be good children, siblings, cousins, friends, you, nephews; that is, we give our best regardless of the role we are playing at the moment.

• What is the use after death to bring the best urn, the most beautiful flowers if he or she is no longer, no longer listens to us.

• All the above mentioned is what will allow us to live consciously the mourning for the death of our relative since: We love, we attend, we listen, we hug, we kiss, we caress, we help, we were good children, brothers, first cousins, friends, you, nephews, when they were alive and that is what has value and it gives value to our existence.

A hug.</div>

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