That is a great question to ask oneself. For me, if I then find no use in the negative comment somebody states, then I just think ”they’re not doing this TO me, they’re just doing it NEAR me”.  :)  Since we’re all responsible for our own inner reality.

**Wow what a beautiful post! Excellent words, by the way you are man beautiful,Greetings from venezuela**

Agree! Feeling hurt when facing criticism is normal and understandable. I think it's important to recognize this feeling. But in order to go beyond ordinary, we need to train ourselves to see positively in everything.

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I needed to read this today. Thank you for sharing this.

You are doing great with your posts because you blog smart (which I indicated on my posts for new and older members). I agree with your view points and wish you more success. Upped.

I'm sorry.

>"What is of use to me in the comment stated".

great statement, i've experience criticisms before what i did is i wasn't angry, but it motivates me to do better everyday despite of criticisms. :)

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Definitely agree with this post. If someone tells you they don't like your content but also tells you what exactly you need to work on, their can ultimately be more beneficial than harmful to you in the long run.

Summary: filter the things that you will accept from other people, just focus on the things that would make you better.

Great advice @markdeheide.
If ones gets to look good as you doing this, I am all in.
well.. just kidding...

Onto more important matters...
Resteemed because I feel everyone should see this. True it is hard sometimes to ignore judgments and Insults but these are what we need to fuel us forward I believe.
I have still not posted a single blog post here but plan to do so soon. It is my intention to have my blog focused mainly on INSPIRATION and LOVE. I am working on my first blog post for weeks now trying to get it perfect. This is now I see mostly because of fear of criticism. Well you motivated me and I will finish it up tonight. Thank you.  (followed you for your genuineness)

hello @mark the idea is to take the positive and learn from negative comments, just as you indicate we can develop as people. I share your point of view and that is the actutud. regards...

Couple of beers with friends maybe =D

Most of my time here on WB is spent lurking, reading, and sometimes commenting on people's settings. I enjoy a lot of them produced by veteran worldbuilders and I've seen a few rough ideas by less experienced people, or just a misstep by someone more experienced.

Regardless when people are sharing their worlds we have to respect that, it takes a lot of courage to share something you don't know if people will like or dislike. Even in the cases where there is an idea that isn't entirely too original, or too fleshed out, I always make a point to make my criticism CONSTRUCTIVE.

Idk, there are time's I've seen people give no effort criticisms that amount to little more than insults at the OP. We're a community so let's support each other and prop each other up, not tear each other down.

Just my two cents.

• Question the Perpetrator’s intention. Ask directly for an explanation:
- What did you mean?
- Why would you say that?
- Could you please explain?
- What is it about (name the issue or subject) that you don’t like?
Direct questions force the Perpetrator to make specific comments— probing for the truth usually makes them feel uncomfortable because they’re being called upon to own up to their insults.
• Turn the tables. Deflect the jab: "Are you having such a horrible, no- good day that you’re taking your frustrations out on me?" "Do you get your kicks trying to make people feel bad?"
• Humor can be an effective antidote. It shows that you’re up to their tests in jest! Using self-deprecating humor or having some quick comebacks on hand makes you laugh instead of squirm and throws them an unexpected curve. Some insults can be exaggerated, taken to extremes, and used to your advantage. Prepare for a likely attack on a perceived target (such as your height, weight, or hair loss) with some appropriate comeback or self-deprecating remarks. When you

Why Hijack Negative Criticism When You Can Hi Jack it instead?

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> How to hijack negative criticism?

Just do whatever the fuck you want because in the end, people are assholes and will judge you anyway.

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Donald Trump masterfully demonstrated this feat. He's counterintuitive yet so ridiculously effective in breaking the rules of conventional wisdom. Novel achievement in my book!