I LEARNT A LOT OF LIFE LESSONS by mercysugar

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hive-153850 · @mercysugar · Dec 27 '22

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I LEARNT A LOT OF LIFE LESSONS

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I have learnt a lot of lessons this year and some taught me to be myself every time, every day while some taught me to speak out and ignore when it’s needed. Though life hasn’t been rosy every time I have been good all the same.

>In the Year 2022,I learn new things, get hurt,get betrayed, and meet amazing people. So, it was a mixture of sad moments and happy moments.

## One of the lessons I learnt this year is never to give up/if you want something, go for it and never relent regardless.
When I was onboarded on hive by @princessbusayo I was more than happy and seeing how she always talks about hive and how this blockchain has supported her needs and wants makes me glad and I was moved by that. When she explained to me that you earn by the number of votes you get my mindset was that I will surely be getting a lot of votes as far as I wrote well and put in the effort in my work.

*But too bad that’s not the case and everything is all about luck.*

I get to learn how life works and things won’t be as smooth as you expected but you won’t just let the outcome of that weighs you down and you just have to keep doing your best.

I was onboarded along with one person on hive but due to the fact she wasn’t getting rewards for her content like others on hive, she give up and stop posting. I understand her point and how she feels, but if you want something and want to soar high on it you will keep moving and put your best regardless. So, giving up should never be an option and with that, I became a strong person, not by body😂 but by heart. So, the year 2022 taught me to be strong and that I shouldn’t beat myself up over things I can’t control.

*Another lesson I learnt this year is to keep company with people that will make a positive impact in my life*
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This year I have learnt to be deliberate in making friends and I am done having friends that don’t add any benefit to my life.

How I came about being deliberate in making friends is I met a lady this year and whenever I see her she is always into some things that will add value to her and if speaking with her friends on phone they are always talking about how they will make money and not some silly talks. So, the friends you keep will determine how far you will get in life, so I urge everyone to make good friends like the proverb that says “bad friends corrupt good manners“. The best thing you can do for yourself is to make good friends.

Out of all the lesson, I learnt this year the greatest one I learnt is no one succeed solely due to his or her effort. Sometimes, you need to succeed by mingling with people so for this to happen you have to get out of your comfort zone and go out there to connect with valuable people.

## How did I come up with this?
One day I was scrolling on hive and a guy planned on delegating HP to one hiver below 100Hp then a lady nominate a guy who she met on the blockchain. This won’t have happened if the guy has not connected with the lady before that so it’s great to connect with people.

[What’s your greatest lesson this year? You can share it in the comment section 😌]()

**Thanks for reading to the end.**

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@actordontee · Dec 27 '22

Lol, this is a great lesson, it's good to be consistent and determined. I know your hard work will pay you soon, just keep on pushing.

I never knew you were onboarded by @princessbusayo , I met her a few days that I was invited here and she has been so nice to me that I can't forget her in my life.

About the conclusion aspect, I was the one that @merit.ahama suggested the other day Burlaj was celebrating his reputation on the blockchain. Merit has been a very nice person that I ran to whenever I needed any answers to some questions and she would reply to all my questions. I kept the bond and always check on her.

I learned that keeping good friends will make you successful, have met some friends here that whenever I ask them something, they won't even reply, and ignore them. But I keep on looking for the right ones. And have met some nice ones here as well.

Just keep a good company, and leave the circle of bad friends,this is a great lesson for me. 
Thank you for this amazing content,you are wonderful.

👍 merit.ahama

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@mercysugar · Dec 27 '22 (edited)

Wow sure princess is a sweet lady and everyone that get to knows her tend to like her and yes I know it’s you that got the Hp from burl I just don’t want to say the details of every time and about you saying you walk up to some people and they don’t help that’s how life is and that’s why it’s good to study people and make friends with them so you can know the kind of person they are.  But at last you found a good person like merit and she has been helping you with some questions. 

That’s great to see you are progressing.

Thanks for dropping this beautiful comment and I will say I am very happy and grateful .

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