Hello there! 
I just read your previous post from the link attached. I'm happy that you are wise and got that experience out of your system while growing at the same time. 

Yes, there were so many red flags, that only someone with strength self-awareness and courage could have entertained such a character despite seeing all those red flags and doubts; So good on you for that.

> Moreover, I generally listen and observe more than I talk.

I guess I'm the same as a woman, and somehow I'd be appreciative of a man who took such approach.

> How do you like to be treated by a man, especially a stranger?

I like to take things slowly. If there's an initial attraction, that I feel is reciprocated, then I would like that person to get to know and understand me, and I would like to do the same and get to know and understand the stranger:)