We love the dead bodies more then than the alive ones. What the f*** i have said?  Correct one.When someone dies our love, sympathy, affection towards them and to their family goes higher and higher. This level of affection wasn’t available few days before even it will fade away with the waves of time. This is the reason i have started with such a horrible line in this writing. 


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Well, deaths are taking places on a daily basis around us. Deaths are normal but i am feeling like the rate has increased in a large number in the recent times. Go through the newspaper you will find several such cases. Switch on the television you will find a lot accidents, murders, suicides.  On top of everything covid-19 deaths are also on high in the last couple of days in my country.

In my locality a boy committed suicide yesterday. He is on the junior batch of my area, i don't know him personally just watching this news on the social media over and over again. Even i didn’t find out the exact reason of suicide just watching people sharing status and photos writing so many quotes on him, so many love, affection and sympathies. I wonder if he got these before his death or not. I am saying these because i know some cases like these. 

Depression is like another trend to the youngsters. It sounds illogical but its true. People goes in such a number of depressions that the others don't give a shit on them. A year back, a girl in my city committed suicide just because she couldn’t secure good marks in the secondary level of education. Her family gone against of her and so she did choose this way.  Even in yesterday’s incident there is something like this happened which lead him to this level of depression or made helpless that at this teenage he chosen such a disastrous step.

But what the problem is with us you know? You don't wanna share our pains with others and even the other people doesn’t pay much attention about our sad parts to pull us upside. People are posting tons of depressed statuses, how many people pay heed to those? Very few. How many people texts them to ask what happened, how many people give time to listen them and find out a solution. How many says that "Don't worry mate i am with you." the number is very less. I am saying these in this way because the number of sympathy, love and affections are coming after his death, if he got half of these when he was alive i am hundred percent sure he wouldn’t have thought about taking such a step let alone committing. 

What is gone is gone, can't undo in real life but we can be careful about the coming situations. We can at least keep track on our nearest and dearest ones. We can stay with them both in their good and bad times. In the good ones be a part of their happiness, in the bad ones divide and solve them together.  When you keep good communication with a person then it is very easy to find out about his conditions. Suppose if i know one of my friends have a breakup then it can surely make him depressed for a certain period of time. So at those time its obvious for me to stay beside him. 

So It's the same in every situation. In the social media we are seeing a large number of depressed and helpless statuses coming from our friends a lot of times. So do texts them, give them some time, try to solve their problems, give advises i mean to say, do your best to help them get out of such shitty situations. Its better than showing love after the person is nowhere left.