Finding true love is not easy. Usually you have to go through a series of meetings and partings until you find the right person. Relations with some give short-term happiness, with others they give valuable experience, with the third they bring trials.

But how to understand in advance that a person will not do anything good? We found out the details pointing to this and found 4 common types of people with whom it is most difficult to build relationships.
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1) Spiritually inferior - constant criticism and envy

Constantly critical people are not able to hear anyone except themselves. Criticism for them is such a conditioned reflex. For each action and saying, they react with destructive criticism.

Self-esteem of such an individual, as a rule, is in a deplorable state, so he sees an opponent in everyone, even in his beloved person. So, in addition to criticism, prepare to see the envy of any of your achievements. Such a person will not rejoice at your successes, do not even hope.

2) Ungrateful - the perception of any effort as due
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It is better not to have anything in common with ungrateful people. They do not see anything unusual in the efforts of other people for them. Their indifference knocks the ground out from under their feet. You try, you try to please, and the answer is ingratitude. Always remember that there are many more worthy and sensitive people in the world than you think.

3) Spongers - parasitism on other people's feelings

If he thinks only of himself, his needs and desires, he certainly will not do anything in the interests of another person. Even the one whom he calls the beloved and the only one. The truly unique value of a freeloader is himself, and all the rest - only resources to achieve his goals.

4) Manipulators - the need for permanent puppets
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To fulfill the request of a loved one is a common thing. But if such requests go one after another and force you to run without the need to carry out assignments without it, then it's time to admit that you are being manipulated.

The manipulator must be taken, he does not like to give in return. When you stop fulfilling requests, the manipulator will quickly take up the search for a new victim-puppet for their games.

And what other categories of people should I avoid?