与青春见面 by mrpointp

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hive-105017 · @mrpointp · May 4 '20

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与青春见面

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昨天岳父岳母与他们青年时期就成为挚友的叔叔阿姨们约饭，我和@mrspointm带着孩子也参加了聚会，一顿饭后，我感触良多。

这样的老友聚会，基本是聊旧不聊新，所谓“旧”是指曾经共同经历的事情，近至昨天，远至30年前。

他们回忆着那些难忘的故事，每隔几分钟大家就会哈哈大笑，此时他们都已忘记现在的职业，忘记这几十年的得失，仿佛一切都回到二十几岁的模样。

在这飞逝的三十年时光里，其实他们算不上经常聚会，甚至会长期不联络，但总还是会抽空聚会。就像其中一个阿姨所说：有些朋友不需要刻意联络感情，只要一见面，那种感觉就自然找到了。

有一位叔叔看着我们三口之家说：有孩子了，就要想着怎么给孩子创造更好的条件，长大了还要考虑工作、婚姻，一忙就是二十几年。

现在四五十岁的父母们，几乎都是这样过来的，生命中最壮年的二三十年基本上就为了家庭和孩子奔波操劳。这也是我们这一代年轻父母即将面临的阶段，这么一想，其实我会感到一丝慌张。

可能有些人能够理解我的“慌”，因为养育孩子真的是一件很不简单的事，对每个父母来说都是一场持久的考验。从个人的角度来说，有了孩子就注定要放弃一部分理想以及一部分你预期的享受。

人无再少年。时间就像自由落体运动，只能前行，无法逆转。所有人都会衰老，年龄在变，心境在变，那么我们如何让自己的生命更有意义和价值呢？

这里我想用那个叔叔的话回答：多和喜欢的朋友一起玩，多做自己喜欢的事，你不喜欢的人和事就少接触，甚至可以不接触。

这样的话，等你年迈的时候回忆青春，会发现过去几十年把更多的时间用在有意义的事情上，这大概就是价值所在。

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@aaronli · May 4 '20

老了只能跟孫子說年青時每天就是上班，真的太糟糕了

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@mrpointp · May 5 '20

想想就是这个样子，所以人还是要追逐理想啊！

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@jychbetter · May 4 '20

我觉得应该放假一天

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@mrpointp · May 5 '20

什么？

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@jychbetter · May 5 '20

点先生，我没说全，是我不好

我说的是，五四青年节，应该给我们青年，放一天假
嘿嘿

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@mrspointm · May 4 '20

@tipu curate

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@tipu · May 4 '20

<a href="https://tipu.online/hive_curator?mrspointm" target="_blank">Upvoted  &#128076;</a> (Mana: 4/12)

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@pizzapai · May 4 '20

对，这个我认同！正努力实现中。
做喜欢的事，和喜欢的人一起，有毒的人远离就是了……可能就是这样，贵人一直在我身边～

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@mrpointp · May 5 '20

对，懂自己的人就是贵人！

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@pizzapai · May 5 '20

但是生活还是很磨人...

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