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新环境里的交友难题 by mrpointp

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新环境里的交友难题
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西西在新学校的第二周,显得有些焦虑和不安,她经常会说不想去小学。虽然这句话说得很轻巧,但作为父母要处理这种情况真是头都大了。这周上了四天学,为此我就伤了四天的脑筋。

本周第一天上学时的负面情绪尤为严重,她甚至在校门口哭闹,进教室都是老师拽进去的。接下来的这几天我们经常会与她沟通上学这件事,她除了表达一些不想上学的原因之外,也表现出一些问题,而这些问题都在加深着“不想上学”的念头。

重点想要聊的就是交朋友,交朋友对于她这么大的孩子来说已经不新鲜了,在小区里得交朋友,在幼儿园也得交朋友,哪怕去参加一场婚宴也能交到朋友。但是小学新入学要怎么交朋友,我真是有点力不从心。

我的力不从心是因为早已忘记当初我是如何与同学们成为朋友的,再加上我明显感觉现在的小学无论是管理程度还是时间安排紧凑度都比我们那时候高,一时间我难以清楚西西在学校是如何与同学们相处的。

今早吃饭时,西西告诉我课间休息时那些同学都是有伙伴一起玩,但是她就坐在椅子上。我建议她去主动交朋友,但西西又回我说害怕被同学拒绝。接下来尽管我嘴上给她各种建议和鼓励,但心里是没底的。

在我看来,她的性格有些胆怯,顾虑太多,而且也太在意别人看法。这样的性格一点也不奇怪,因为我和点点老师都算不上社牛,而且我小时候也有些内向,直到初中开始才变得开朗活跃。

现在我有些进退两难,一边觉得不应该给她太多关注和提示,这样会让她越发重视这些问题反而加重焦虑,另一边又觉得如果不做引导鼓励会不会更令她胆怯,真要是形单影只可怎么办。

原本西西满适应和同桌小L一起玩的,但前天老师忽然给她换了新同桌,她自己也回来告诉我们还是喜欢原来的同桌,也不知道老师此举为何。

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@hellotryli ·
我感觉小朋友之间的感情都是很纯真的❤️
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@jaychoumjs ·
多培养他的兴趣
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@neithya ·
我觉得只要西西主动一点点会收获很多朋友的,西西的笑好治愈
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@rainbowzhou ·
要不要给小朋友测试下是i人还是e人?
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@mrpointp ·
哈哈哈,感觉是混合型
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