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“代沟消除计划”破灭 by mrpointp

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人们都说“三岁一代沟”,一个25岁的人与23岁的人理论上是存在代沟的。除了年龄带来的影响,其实性别、审美、生长环境等因素都在为人与人产生差别,而我刚刚为人父母那会本以为一切都是事在人为。

我算是同龄人里比较早就当爹的,当他们还在想着晚上和好友去网吧开黑,我就已经在思考怎样和即将诞生的孩子相处。我希望自己做一个理解孩子、支持孩子的爸爸,所以尽可能减少代沟是个重要前提。

我也与点点老师分享过这个想法,自认为在思想还没有固化的阶段就当了爸爸,再加上我从小到大也很了解儿童青少年在不同阶段的特点。我理解贪玩是孩子的共性,理解孩子对电子产品、互联网世界的痴迷,因为我也是这么长大的。

可是为人父的这几年,我的想法受到改变,实际上代沟这东西是永远无法消除的,因为它也包含了理想与责任。

别说我和西西相差二十岁,其实就连比我小几岁的年轻人与我都存在无法逾越的代沟。前几年我带过两个本科在校实习生,当时我比她们最多大五岁,感觉差距是很小的,可在一个月的接触里,我觉得她们幼稚,她们觉得我想法有点陈旧。

不仅是思想方面,其实在信息获得也是如此。我还是个学生时,是很享受互联网带来的虚拟潮流的,跟着网络玩各种梗,关注各种奇奇怪怪的东西,而现在再与十几岁的孩子交流,感觉自己网络盲区还是不少的。或许只是我关注的不再是那些没有太多实际意义的东西。

真不敢想象十年以后我和西西会是怎样的相处方式,虽然直到代沟无法避免,但仍然希望做一个开明、包容的老爸,但愿她到时候不要嫌我老土,哈哈。

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大人跟小孩是有代沟的,应该很难消除
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